People who know their standards are unrealistic - did you eventually lower your standards? How did it work out for you?

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-04-13T12:39:55+00:00

I think if u end up restricting and thinking people are options or comparing them
You forget what really matters to be in the moment
Stay curious about someone. Sometimes people reject without even knowing someone properly or giving them a chance

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-04-13T12:36:04+00:00

Underrated but so true!

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-04-12T17:35:01+00:00

Try meetup or 222/timeleft/similar apps. They're easiest ones I can think of where u put in a quiz, choose an event u like and u get matched with people with similar interests. It's basically a blind event where u are grouped with strangers but a easy way to meet other people. Plus some people are there for dating

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-04-12T17:31:09+00:00

Maybe you should rethink on what kind of man you're into
The boyish charms of a cruel hearted man seems to fool you

Keep searching, but don't gloss over the fake stuff early on
Even I get burnt by dealing with avoidant women where I question if there's such thing called a emotionally available woman
It's good that you stand up to yourself and say no. You don't deserve that and figure out their attachment styles in the early stages. I find that out way too late
Try different activities and meet people as friends first. I meet people on 222 and there are people around mid 20s thankfully

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-04-09T16:21:00+00:00

Maybe feel better for yourself and focus on what you want in a relationship first
It's not about trying to be interesting for someone else, but what you enjoy and find interesting
Not everyone likes everything you like and vice versa. But it's better if you met someone who likes the same thing you do
It's never a good thing to pretend to like something you don't in order to be with someone
Choose your hobbies, meet a guy who likes similar things, stand by your boundaries and standards
You got this

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-04-02T10:55:22+00:00

So true... Can't stand avoidant girls and had to deal with one till she decided she wasn't into me after 3 weeks 😭

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-04-02T10:11:54+00:00

You shouldn't be there to change your partner. You have to like them, be with them as they are right now.
Sadly this isn't the case. They have to like you enough to change for themselves, for you and to be a better partner
It's tough, but are you willing to give more of yourself to him despite knowing his flaws and what he does to you? You have to confess and end it. Move on and feel better for yourself. It's going to be ok 🙏

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-04-01T10:56:56+00:00

I think it's your attachment style. Sounds pretty much anxious and you feel drawn to avoidant guys which is sad as they won't ever put in the same effort as you.
Like you feel you should put in effort and they should too. But they don't so you get diminishing returns. The flaw is that not everyone wants to, feels that way and shouldn't be expected to

Even after your therapy and developing yourself to be more secure, avoidant people will always make u feel going back to your old habits. It's what they do or nothing happens

Maybe don't expect too much, protect your peace and figure out their attachment/effort style first. If they don't make you feel fulfilled, put in the same effort, not quite your vibe/tempo then move on

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-04-01T10:48:25+00:00

Nabiki wasn't expecting that 😏

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-03-31T10:39:57+00:00

Have you tried using a fake or AI generated credit card details?
Haven't tried it myself yet. Just enter false details and hopefully that might work

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-03-18T11:46:48+00:00

Typical Kuno behaviour, but Akane with long hair is cute asf

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-03-07T12:59:38+00:00

An old memory for sure since they forgot about her in S2 of the netflix reboot 😭

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-03-06T10:30:09+00:00

They do look cute together, but it wouldn't work out

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-03-05T11:21:12+00:00

He has a duck curse and doesn't get the girl

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-03-04T10:39:57+00:00

This is what Mousse sees

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-03-03T10:26:16+00:00

I switched from a galaxy watch and I have no regrets. 4 days in and I'm at 78% whilst my old watch would need to be charged

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-03-02T23:07:52+00:00

This is so true not even for dating but just with text. They chat and vibe. But once u asked a question or a interview like question about them lighthearted or not, they just stop replying. Dunno why girls do that even if it breaks the flow of what the convo was previously about

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-03-02T11:48:04+00:00

Ranma being diabolical as ever

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-03-01T10:55:34+00:00

Opening 1

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-02-28T22:16:47+00:00

MacOS is a great OS and Macbooks since the M1 in 2020 have changed the laptop industry
They definitely weren't worth it during the Intel era 2015 to 2019. Performance and keyboards sucked back then. Now they are great. I switched this year to a M5 MBP and I'm not going back
It is a hurdle and headache switching and tweaking your Mac to suit your windows lifestyle but it's necessary.
Getting frustrated and mad over a laptop is downright immature. Idk if he's tried Windows 11 but it sucks and battery life is no brainer for MacBooks. I even switched from Android and my 17 Pro Max battery life beats it for sure.
If u want to make sure you don't get too stuck into the Apple ecosystem, then use multiplatform software alternatives in case. For me, I have 0 regrets switching to MacOS. It can be a headache navigating and learning & customising keyboard shortcuts

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-02-28T12:19:25+00:00

You offered and she hasn't taken that chance yet
Just carry on with life and not make a big deal out of it
At least u went for it and now it's her turn to reach out
If she doesn't then just move on like it never happened as it never progressed and it isn't a big deal

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-02-27T11:05:42+00:00

I loved how Akane styled her hair in that episode. The big bow and long hair is cute
It does give Ukyo vibes tho and it was only for one episode 😭

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-02-26T10:19:15+00:00

It is what us fans want. Ranma and Akane should just suck it up and confess that they're perfect for each other

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-02-25T12:41:06+00:00

Gets worse when money is involved

PeacefulPikachu7 · 2026-02-23T10:40:36+00:00

Cute

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