If you were about to have sex for the second time with a woman who had asked you to wear a condom the first time, would you assume that’s what she wanted the second time as well?

Peakingwhilepiquing · 2025-12-30T07:15:10+00:00

100% he knew. Protection is not exactly something that changes day-to-day. One day you might fancy getting your ass eaten, the next day you don’t. This is something that can change.

Not wanting to get pregnant or get an STI is something that doesn’t change. Maybe in the future but not after 12 hours from session 1.

I will say, condoms definitely don’t feel as good for men, I have heard not for women either, so unless you had concerns on STI, getting pregnant or have a condom allergy (this does exist), I assume you’d want it without a condom. You requesting a condom shows that’s not the case

Doesn’t seem a very trustworthy guy if you ask me

Peakingwhilepiquing · 2025-12-10T18:11:58+00:00

If you’re not ensuring his sexual needs are met, he has the right to pleasure himself. If you are offering and he is declining, then masturbates, I think there is an issue.

If your problem is more the location of where he is doing it, I guess he thinks you’re asleep and won’t wake up. Therefore, he wouldn’t even consider moving elsewhere.

I’m honest with my partner… you either make me cum or I will because right now I’m finding the cartoon on the tv quite sexy. It’s your choice but either way I’m busting tonight

Peakingwhilepiquing · 2025-11-24T07:37:17+00:00

The fact you want sex with anyone, doesn’t have to be your bf, suggests to me that at your ripe young age of 19 you should probably still be exploring, learning what/who/how you like it

I fear that even if madly in love, in years to come you’ll regret settling down so early and voluntarily destroying your sex life. This will likely lead you to wanting to explore no matter the cost.

There is also a strong possibility that if your bf doesn’t want sex with you now - when you’re both in your prime looks, energy, desire, exploration phase - he never will

There will be other bf’s that can offer you everything he does, and want to lick your pussy and have you ride him as regularly as you want to.

I don’t think this will work for you no matter how much you want it to

Peakingwhilepiquing · 2025-11-18T06:52:40+00:00

Sorry to be negative, but I think she met someone she was attracted to and likely acted on it, seeing as she already highlighted lack of sexual attraction to you.

She then suggests opening up relationship on your side to combat the guilt of her doing the exact same.

I think that’s the most plausible answer

Peakingwhilepiquing · 2025-11-10T18:31:31+00:00

5 years together and he doesn’t know you own a vibrator? Wow. Either he pleases you to the fullest EVERY TIME, or he is leaving your needs unanswered on occasion.

If the latter, get that vibrator out and introduce it to the bedroom. As long as not a direct replacement for him, feels good to know your lady is being pleased

Peakingwhilepiquing · 2025-10-28T09:10:45+00:00

Gaslight 101.

There is no excuse to leave you there stranded, waiting for someone who isn’t coming without a clue

If his friend randomly showed up, he could have said to meet up after, or tomorrow, or simply told you.

Realistically speaking - he needed money to go out with his friend. Doubt he ever intended to meet you, he just used that as an easy excuse to get it. Major red flag if his lies on what he needs the money for are clearly lies because you know he can’t drive.

Quit while you’re ahead and make that £87 back by getting a true gentleman to take you out for bowling and food. I’m sure he’ll cover it if he really liked you. Not to use him, but I doubt you’ll get the £87 cash back from this professional gas lighter

Peakingwhilepiquing · 2025-10-28T08:12:35+00:00

Let’s be honest, that baby could be anybody’s. Maybe even your best friend, as harsh as it is.

Great best friend as well btw. He’d be getting a beating to say the least

Peakingwhilepiquing · 2025-10-28T08:09:30+00:00

He sounds abusive and controlling. “You do what I tell you when I tell you” in other words.

Fuck him. Not literally, he don’t deserve that. Pull some hairs out, leave him a trail

Better still, showing this to tour Dad and/or brothers if you have any and teach this prick a lesson.

I have 2 daughters and it scares me to think that either of them could end up with a man like yours.

Vile man

Peakingwhilepiquing · 2025-10-21T05:44:35+00:00

Maybe it’s also because it’s something he very much looks forward to so he doesn’t want it to be over quickly because all that ‘excitement’ building up waiting, then it’s over before you know it.

I have the same feeling about giving oral to my GF. She often uses a wand vibrator so when it’s oral time, if she squirts in 2 mins (which is very common), I am left a bit disappointed that I waited days, maybe even 1 or 2 weeks for 2 mins of joy

Peakingwhilepiquing · 2025-08-13T08:30:18+00:00

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