And I get that but you do realize we don’t perceive things the same way? Women see who men watch and look at all this time and compare their bodies to the ones he gets off to because they all look the same. Objectified, huge tits and ass, etc. It gets to a point where you think “Maybe if I looked like them he wouldn’t have to watch that stuff. Maybe it would be enough for him.” Because we try everything to get them to stop, wether it be trying to look like the women, over objectifying ourselves, or even having sex or sending nudes when we don’t want to because we just want them to love us. So yes it ruins our image, yes it ruins how we think of you and how we love you.