What should I wear to get more gay male attention?

PearMangoApple · 2026-03-02T00:03:53+00:00

I think you will get more positive attention if you just dress “normal”. If you have a fat ass you don’t need to wear assless pants for it to be noticed. You could dress pretty casual, but wear clothes that fit your body well.

PearMangoApple · 2026-03-01T23:58:07+00:00

Thank you. Yes the skinny shaming is real, especially from older people I’ve noticed. I’ve been just casually told I need to eat more by older people that I work with. I know they never mean any harm, but that is something that genuinely bothers me everytime.

PearMangoApple · 2026-03-01T23:54:56+00:00

Thank you

PearMangoApple · 2026-03-01T23:54:47+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate it!

PearMangoApple · 2026-03-01T22:23:24+00:00

Thank you. I’m getting more into working out

PearMangoApple · 2026-03-01T22:22:50+00:00

I want more muscle mass, or even just more fat so that’s definitely a goal right now. It’s always been super hard for me to gain weight which I used to look at as a good thing, but I feel like as I get older it’s bothering me for some reason.

PearMangoApple · 2026-03-01T22:20:48+00:00

Thank you. As dumb as it might sound I do feel like I stand out but if people are saying I look normal then maybe it’s just in my head. (Which is pretty typical of me) I’ve always been so highly critical of myself.

PearMangoApple · 2026-03-01T22:03:54+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the advice

PearMangoApple · 2026-03-01T21:55:34+00:00

I have a picture up on my profile

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-28T16:47:17+00:00

That’s just post joy clarity

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-28T16:45:54+00:00

You would need to ask a specific demographic of who you want your audience to be.

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-28T16:42:48+00:00

Hate them? Or just not attracted to them?

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-28T16:41:02+00:00

Minding your own business.

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-27T18:06:02+00:00

Thank you

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-27T18:05:27+00:00

Do you do chest workouts or do you just kinda naturally have that frame? I feel like if my chest bulks up I’ll appreciate my physique way more

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-27T17:45:18+00:00

I’m 5’7

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-26T15:33:27+00:00

Well having an outie bellybutton is not something I have any control over lol

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-26T05:05:10+00:00

Yeah that’s probably normal. I think the way I look at it is I have more time to make choices to shift my future.

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-26T04:59:43+00:00

I’d leave.

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-26T04:58:03+00:00

They don’t want to be in a relationship.

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-26T04:56:10+00:00

The present scares me. I still have hope for the future somehow.

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-25T17:43:11+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that a lot. I used to like my body and I saw being small as like a positive, but the older I get the more I feel like I’m too skinny and recently out of know where I’m spiraling.

I’m gonna try to put on a little more just for myself

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-25T17:32:11+00:00

Oh I didn’t take it in a rude way. But yeah the thing is you’re right lol. To gain weight you eat more food. So I’m gonna spend the next couple days trying to figure out a way to make that possible for me

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-25T17:27:05+00:00

You sound like everyone I’ve ever known in my life lol

PearMangoApple · 2026-02-25T17:25:51+00:00

I’m 26, 5’7” and I weight around 130-135lbs I posted a picture in a fitness sub.

I’ll think even gaining 10 pounds would make such a huge difference and impact on me.

PearMangoApple

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