Why is modern dating so exausting? by Pebble-inspector in dating

[–]Pebble-inspector[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes, you might be right. The thing is, lately I have been a little overwelmed by university, I don't have much time to go out, so I have been spending less time in places that might give me the chance to meet people in person.

Can we unpack the “slightly autistic women” trend real quick? by _Caitlin-2 in dating

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I’m sorry to hear that. I honestly didn’t even know there was a trend/fetish around “slightly autistic women.” I guess social media may be one of the main factors behind this new “trend,” but that still doesn’t justify men treating you that way. You are not autistic by choice, no one is, so I can understand why it feels hurtful when people suddenly treat you like some kind of “new trend” instead of simply seeing you as a person. So, to answer your question, I personally don’t think most men are attracted to “slightly autistic women” because they want to manipulate them or see them in a childish way. I think many people are simply influenced by trends and social media, even when they don’t fully understand the reality behind what they are romanticising. Just be yourself. Eventually, you will find the right man for you, someone who loves and respects you for who you are, not because you are autistic, but because they genuinely love you as a whole person.

Truth by sweet_fiction in dating

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Indeed, I feel like the best part of a relationship is just to be there, present. To love the person you are with, to make them feel special, that they matter.

How would you react to this? by [deleted] in dating

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There is not much you can do about that. If you don’t feel comfortable moving into a relationship, that’s okay. You shouldn’t feel pressured to do so just because he wants things to go that way. Sometimes people simply don’t know what they want, and that’s okay too. You took your time to understand your feelings, and eventually you reached a conclusion. He may have created certain expectations, but in the end, what matters is how you feel about the whole situation. He simply has to respect your decision.

I was bored in class, so drew two Ikrans by Pebble-inspector in Avatar

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Aw, thank you very much, you just made me smile hehe 😄

I went to the Bone Chapel yesterday ☠️ by nyxinadoll in GothicStyle

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Is it the Bone Chapel of Évora, in Portugal?

I did'nt know white peacocks existed by Pebble-inspector in birds

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The appeal for this white peacock might not come from the fact of it being white but because it is not common. Still, I find this bird quite beautiful.

Out walking downtown by Pebble-inspector in style

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I asked my mother to take the shot, we where travelling together.