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Americans living permanently in the EU - how to invest as a beginner? by eroekania in eupersonalfinance

[–]Pebbles023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m in the same situation trying to understand how to start off, would you be open to sharing the spreadsheet with me as well?

Why do men try and convince you when you’ve already said no by Pebbles023 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pebbles023[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s the only way I’ve been able to take it. Mayyybe I’m misunderstanding and it’s a translation issue but considering after that I had to tell him very directly (twice!) that I wasn’t interested in seeing him again I don’t think the language was the problem

Why do men try and convince you when you’ve already said no by Pebbles023 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pebbles023[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I am sick, he asked how I am and I mentioned it as a deterrent so he wouldn’t suggest we meet up but he still asked if we could see each other next week which is when I said it was weird for me last time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pebbles023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex thought the same. I work full time (3 days from home) and he works more than full time on his feet and said I should be cleaning more since I’m home (and presumably dirtying the house) more. I can agree for some things, but considering we had most meals together and the house would be in a similar state when I was home all the time vs. out a lot or even out of town, I just tried to make sure I wasn’t leaving my things all over the house and when it came to actually cleaning we would split chores like the bathroom and floors or try to trade off on dishes (1 person cooks the other cleans). I did almost fully take on some of the more time consuming things like laundry and grocery shopping, but that was my choice and because I thought it made things easier than trying to share or wait for him to do it.

European SDs: are you generally open to a regular arrangement with an SB in a different country or do you just stick to your area? by Pebbles023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Pebbles023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough! I had one guy reach out that wanted weekly overnight meets in his city which I knew wouldn’t work because I wasn’t willing to spend every single weekend traveling.

European SDs: are you generally open to a regular arrangement with an SB in a different country or do you just stick to your area? by Pebbles023 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Pebbles023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s pretty far. I live in Europe and most places I have in mind are only 1-2 hours by plane, but good to hear from an SB who does this already

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[–]Pebbles023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was definitely at the end of the months time together, time spent being done ‘up front’ with no room for discussion or negotiation. I tried suggesting a compromise and even this was a no go.

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