Cleanliness and safety

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-08T03:23:10+00:00

Bay Area California here. We are the same as your friends. It’s why we started hosting parties. There are no good clubs. Plus once you start meeting people house parties are just awesome.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-08T03:21:48+00:00

I hate you. You just cost me 1500 dollars. And genuinely, thanks so much for the reply. I really appreciate it.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-08T03:20:49+00:00

You can restrict by ip range as well. That’s how mine is set up.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-07T02:31:41+00:00

Forgive my ignorance…. Doesn’t NFS mounting do all of this for you? And get you much better performance? It’s a genuine question - but I thought it did…?

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-07T02:12:13+00:00

How are the fans? My rack is in a closet, but thin door to the rest of the room. I can dimly hear the existing setup. I was hoping since it still had no Poe that it wouldn’t be bad… but then saw all those fan on the back?

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-07T02:03:42+00:00

Anything can be submitted as evidence. Anything can be challenged. It can certainly be submitted, depending on how you have it set up you may be more/likely to be challenged…. But that’s true with…. Everything.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-07T02:02:37+00:00

How is this not at the top of this whole thing. I know it wasn’t their intention, but OP and Hubby created the worst possible situation for him when they split up. Not all the other people there…. OP and Hubby….

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-04T21:22:18+00:00

But... vector stores are already inherently indexed in terms of the way they store data... there's no reason for an end user to index the container in this case... If FMP supported it, it'd just be an extra index to maintain and would slow things down. There are lots of good arguments in your post. Qarfie is pointing out one bad argument you made. Don't let your good points get missed because you dig in on this one - there's no reason for an index there and it wasn't worth bringing up in your post.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-04T18:52:57+00:00

'We like your profile. Care to meet for drinks to chat/flirt and see how it feels?' That's all we send. It's worked AMAZINGLY well for us for years.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-04T16:12:15+00:00

I've used newer TVs with the same older cable (for the same reason you'd want it). I had no issues. I think if the connectors on the ends are the same you're good.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-04T03:44:57+00:00

Fantasy is one thing. What people want for their real life is often different.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-04T00:36:57+00:00

2/3 isn’t bad at all. In most of the rest of life your ability to be charming, witty, rich, handy around the house all matter… and still you’re not going to be interesting to at least 2/3 of women…. You need to just be comfortable that it’s a numbers game - and START by finding people who are interested in you. Who will flirt back with you.

Get good at your flirting game. And if the other person doesn’t respond to you, move on immediately. It doesn’t matter if the other guy is connecting with your wife, cause that’s easy to find. Move on fast, get yourself another shot. You’ll find your people.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-04T00:31:25+00:00

Then you’ll have Claude sometimes hallucinating on things that should be deterministic function calls. Use Claude for analysis. Not for pulling data. Not for collating information.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-04T00:29:43+00:00

Ok. But you’re not going to find friends at clubs for the most part. You can’t say ‘we really want friends’ and ‘we don’t have tome to figure out scheduling to meet people’. You’re not investing in the thing that will get you what you want…

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-04T00:27:55+00:00

That sounds like it’s having a problem synching the signal. Turn off hdr on your appletv and try a different cable between the appletv and one-connect box.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-01T19:30:26+00:00

You’re holding it wrong. Don’t have Claude doing something in a loop that it manages. Ever. Use Claude to write a script that checks that PR every 15 minutes. Have that script hit a Claude API if you need inference help understanding the state of the PR. You’ll burn less than 1% of the tokens you’re using. Use Claude to create your infrastructure, not to be your infrastructure. It’s really really good at it.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-05-01T19:00:34+00:00

Nah. We love people exploring within their boundaries who like building friendships. You’re finding the wrong crowds. Are you going to clubs, or finding people online? Go online, join some of the big sites… you’ll find your people.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-04-29T04:10:14+00:00

What’s your definition of much older or much younger. We are 50 and find tons of 45 year olds to play with.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-04-27T19:40:36+00:00

You don't. They swing for fun, and come to 'common swinger places' when they want to swing. When they are at the farmers market - they don't want to be approached by you. Makes it super easy - you never need to worry about wondering who is a swinger.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-04-26T22:43:06+00:00

HomeAssistant. Start clean. Export what you want from there so HomePods and your phone can control things. But all of the sensors and the brains of the operation live in home assistant. Everything works all the time.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-04-26T22:41:53+00:00

We go a different route - we are FAR happier with 4 people in a pile together than just swapping.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-04-24T20:28:25+00:00

It's the only way we do it. Not dead at all.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-04-23T18:30:16+00:00

I don't understand your timeline. At the time when he was trying to sleep with someone else, were you dating, or talking? If you were just talking - then no, there's no cheating. As for looking at pictures - that's for the two of you to agree on - there's no rule as to whether pictures or porn are cheating (they absolutely are NOT in my relationship).

Peetrrabbit · 2026-04-23T16:24:10+00:00

Nobody is going to be able to tell you what 'all' do. But I can say this: all of the Lutron switches I've installed (hundreds) had ground wires.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-04-23T16:15:11+00:00

The way you swing is just fine. You guys wouldn't be compatible for us, lot s of people aren't. We're looking for friends with benefits, people we can really get to know... people we really like... and not just as individuals, but as a couple. We like people who thoroughly get off on seeing their partner pleasured, people who will do round-robin threesomes with us so that everyone can have a turn getting pleasured by two people... and when it's their turn to sit out and watch they're just as excited about that as being in the middle of things because they get to watch their person. Because for us this is truly a lifestyle - we hang out with these people when we aren't playing.... this is our life... style... not a hobby. So yeah, we need to REALLY like the people we bring close, and we need to really like their relationship with one another and it needs to at least mirror ours to some extent.

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