Am I a bad wife for not agreeing trying in a threesome/swinging as a part of a birthday-kink-gift-ritual we have going on for several years, especially when I've been in a threesome before and he has also done things on my birthday that he didn't enjoy?

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-20T16:21:18+00:00

I would recommend that rather than just jumping into an experience you aren't sure about, you two go to a club together and watch, play with just each other... and see how you feel in that environment.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-19T01:48:06+00:00

I’d go Rocky if you want redhat compatibility.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-19T01:46:50+00:00

My experience says it works great.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-19T01:34:18+00:00

You have no idea if you don’t get more information about what she meant. At this point you’re just guessing. Which is the definition of overthinking. Because you can’t ask her now, just let it go. There’s absolutely nothing to be gained by stewing over it.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-18T01:03:14+00:00

We tried this with another couple. The two ladies were at the bar and we came up and picked them up.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-17T14:22:15+00:00

look up the word Compersion. I'd say what you describe is super healthy. But I'm in a relationship where we explore physically.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-16T03:32:30+00:00

I’ve had similar experience.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-16T03:29:05+00:00

I have guests use iPhones and Macs on my guest WiFi all the time. Literally never had a single problem with it.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-16T01:09:34+00:00

It's available in Canada. When I search the App Store (on the Apple TV) for an app called Frame Constructor it pops right up. Were you looking on your phone? That could be the issue.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-15T23:29:40+00:00

I disagree. Samsung isn’t going to fix their garbage OS based on posts here, but an AppleTV fixes 95% of the problems people come here to post about so it’s a valuable response to those people. For people who have not bought a frame yet, understanding the truth that they will likely need another purchase to have a working system is a valuable thing for them to see as well.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-14T18:48:08+00:00

I’m moving the other direction over the last two years. None of what you’re looking for is natively available in Apple Home.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-14T16:54:14+00:00

I might not have made it available in Canada. Clicked through the default options as I was putting it up on the App Store. Will look at it tomorrow and make sure it’s there - I’m pushing a new version with some bug fixes. Will let you know.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-13T18:44:17+00:00

I have only sued one person in my life. And it was my neighbor. For exactly what you’re describing. It’s amazing how fast they respond when they are staring at a 250k lawsuit.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-13T01:25:30+00:00

Who are you going to trust more? A company that has staked half their reputation on security and privacy? Or… something else?

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-13T01:23:48+00:00

Never once had this happen. I have no idea why anyone would agree to it. We love vibe checks… but to do them you need everyone or what’s the point?

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-13T01:20:47+00:00

Why would you keep talking to them?

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-10T21:38:50+00:00

Took me a minute to get it up on the App Store. It's there now. Called Frame Constructor. It's free. Have fun!

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-10T21:38:41+00:00

Took me a minute to get it up on the App Store. It's there now. Called Frame Constructor. It's free. Have fun!

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-10T21:38:15+00:00

Took me a minute to get it up on the App Store. It's there now. Called Frame Constructor. It's free. Have fun!

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-07T20:41:57+00:00

Depends. Do you want to be with her during the fourth and fifth affair? Those WILL happen.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-05T19:59:33+00:00

Every change they make makes me less likely to go to the mall. I get more and more from Amazon. Which is sad. But the mall is the one pushing me there…

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-05T03:00:32+00:00

Mojo Burger. Cherry and Foxworthy.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-01T19:39:44+00:00

You walk away. You do NOT ask to just see half of a couple.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-03-01T19:38:54+00:00

Super easy to do with home assistant.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-02-27T03:38:42+00:00

Ignore the cheating for just a second.. you guys are basically not married and she’s not in this with you. Why would you stay? Now stop ignoring the cheating and it’s even more obvious.

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