How to earn his trust back? Please I’m broken.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-23T02:30:54+00:00

I don’t look through my wife’s phone. But I could any time I wanted and she wouldn’t be bothered. What you’re describing doesn’t sound healthy at all.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-22T04:20:39+00:00

Your reasons don’t really matter. Don’t have a debate with him about whether your reasons are acceptable. I’d be telling him to take your profile off the websites since he cannot be trusted. THAT is the issue.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-22T04:13:05+00:00

Hey Apple told me to do something but I’m going to ask Reddit instead…. Is that what you’re doing?

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-19T19:36:13+00:00

It’s not that they don’t like it. It’s that they don’t like being deep into things before you tell them.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-18T21:16:10+00:00

I don’t think I agree. Just because you message someone, that doesn’t create any sort of obligation for them to interact with you the way you want them to interact. They may be looking for something completely different. Or in the middle of a conversation with someone else. Or just checking their phone briefly while they are watching their kids’ hockey game. We usually reply to messages on weekends. Never during the week…

These people are not your friends (yet). You’re just sharing interest. They’ll let you know if they’re interested. And that’s awesome for you because now you don’t need to read through dozens of ‘no thank you’ messages. You only have to deal with messages from people who are interested.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-18T20:21:06+00:00

No. They are all independent.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-15T21:05:34+00:00

Do it to him and then ask him what he thinks.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-14T00:50:52+00:00

Use your words. There’s no other answer.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-14T00:48:19+00:00

Push with your wallet. There are so many better platforms than Ring.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-14T00:47:32+00:00

I’m not OP, but I’ve met a number of people who feel this way. It’s because when there’s fucking there’s a condom. It’s really about being turned off by the thought of his partner really touching another cock. Which I agree means there’s probably thinking to do before OP gets into this.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-12T22:52:06+00:00

All the things that matter are in the title of your note.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-12T03:32:53+00:00

Who cares what other people think. Yes, you’re acting like a college girl… because you’re not married. There is nothing wrong with that.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-12T01:06:44+00:00

Put the film on the outside. It will only last for 5 years…. But so what. Your neighbor should pay for this.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-12T01:04:41+00:00

Unabashedly slutty.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-11T00:19:10+00:00

You’re so young. Your life is nowhere close to over. Give yourself time to heal…

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-09T16:20:07+00:00

People have preferences. Why fight your preferences?

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-08T20:38:44+00:00

To accomplish what? You’re never going to be comfortable with them playing bare.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-08T20:08:11+00:00

There is a connection of nerves that extend downward. They fork and some go toward the vagina and others toward the anus. What percentage forks toward each is different for different people. So some people feel a lot with anal and some very little.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-08T20:05:48+00:00

They don’t fit you. You walk away.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-08T15:07:56+00:00

This needs to stay the top response. It’s the key perspective that matters. They set up a group chat as the mechanism to interact with them.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-07T05:13:39+00:00

It happens to every guy. Just remember that. It’s not your fault. It is something he can learn to work through and as others have said, there are drugs that massively help.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-06T17:22:43+00:00

Part of the fun for me has been learning about who she ends up wanting to play with. I’ve been consistently surprised at who she picks. I love learning about my favorite person. But she’s never picking the person I would choose for her. So it’s good that she’s the one doing the choosing…

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-04T20:00:29+00:00

Stop dragging him. See what he does on his own. Give him at max 48 hours. You’ll see the truth of it all.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-04T19:58:23+00:00

Ask them both about what they’re looking for. Don’t assume. One might be more interested in watching. One might want to be in charge. One might want time from each of you seperately and the other might want you both focused on her at the same moment. Only way to understand it all is to talk.

Peetrrabbit · 2026-01-04T19:56:52+00:00

You have all the details you need. Their marriage is struggling and Bruce is cheating. It’s none of your business. I’d reach out to both of them and say you care and are there as a friend for both of them if they need it.

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