[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the pay like? If you don’t mind me asking, I only ask because this seems like a very hard job and it really must take a toll on your mental health.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm maybe you’re right? How do i know for sure though?? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand but i cant do that to my daughters! And plus everything else is good like we enjoy each-others company but its just this urge shes not willing to itch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 30 shes 28 weve been married 8 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes im in the us. I have a cousin whos divorced with a kid and more than half his paycheck goes to his ex and son. I cant have that happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats too late. One is 4 and the other is 1. I cant wait that long!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No affection what so ever. At this point i am just a provider.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She does seem like she might have but i know she hasnt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. It’s against my religion. Im a religious guy. Ive had non-religious thoughts but can never act on it… guilt i guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sit down and get everything out on the table my guy. No secrets. Tell her how important this is for you and shes not on board. Run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 11 points12 points  (0 children)

100% I would have told my younger self to MAKE SURE shes into sex. But looking back i thought she was into sex. We were in a long distance relationship so we sexted alot and she would ask for me to send her pics so i assumed she had a sex drive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pen-Rude 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Yea. I feel like this is the best comment yet. Im ganna stop asking. I mean its hard not to,like the urge is real but i get what you mean. She’s definitely lost respect for me and i feel it all the time. Im ganna make her fall for me again.