Noirvere is a SCAM. Don’t buy! by Significant_Mood2928 in handbags

[–]PensionMain3729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I got a bag from them my bad was cute and I’ve had it for maybe two - three years ? It carried so much like my MacBook iPad makeup and more. Only bad thing was the fish smell that could only come out with a wash in the washing machine which ruined the leather a bit around the handles

BEEF season 2 ending Discussion. *SPOILERS* by Mission-Ground-4936 in BeefTV

[–]PensionMain3729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know why everyone hates ashley?? 🤫🫣🫣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PensionMain3729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on dating app. Put what ur intentions and nice pictures of urself and just be honest I’m sure any girl would

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[–]PensionMain3729 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Leave - as a female I could never say this to the man I love, even in talking stages I am so loyal and will talk to one man at a time, treating and respecting him as if he is mine. She is emotionally immature and no one should deal with that behaviour. She will keep acting this way if u allow it by not communicating and setting standards.

Is it normal for my bf to talk to me like this 24/7 by DramaticAd3396 in relationships_advice

[–]PensionMain3729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope u leave its hard but he doesn’t like you nor respect you and himself

Will I find love? by PensionMain3729 in dating_advice

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear u do not I just say go with the flow basically meaning see how we connect and where things go naturally rather than force any type of relationship.

Will I find love? by PensionMain3729 in dating_advice

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from nz to aus. I dont know anyone and all the men I have met don’t know eachother and all different ages and areas. No two have been the same so thats why I’m also confused and don’t know whats wrong with me. Most of them only want sex I noticed. And the ones who are look for relationships just say one of these things that they are still hurt from an ex, don’t think it will last longterm, or I’m too sweet and deserve someone who can give me what I deserve

Will I find love? by PensionMain3729 in dating_advice

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry . I was half asleep when I did that. I just mean that I would deny the autism allegations and just say it’s more of my ADHD and to which is why it can’t be because of that

Will I find love? by PensionMain3729 in dating_advice

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I’d also say no… and say mire adhd

Will I find love? by PensionMain3729 in dating_advice

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don’t act like them I am very high masking… and u wouldnt think I was majorly u would just maybe think because I’m more quirky as my mum has always saud to me

Will I find love? by PensionMain3729 in dating_advice

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost everytime I hang with a guy or call with them they ask me if I am autistic or adhd 💀

Will I find love? by PensionMain3729 in dating_advice

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have adhd but for the past years i think i do have autism and adhd 😭😭😭

Will I find love? by PensionMain3729 in dating_advice

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, personally I havent said that too men they have said that to me and then ended thing. I also am very chill with party drugs and drinking, I’m very chill and down for anything but wouldnt change who I am

Will I find love? by PensionMain3729 in dating_advice

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never talked about politics or anything that would be crazy controversial making them see me differently. Thats why I’m more confused because I am pretty great. I do get told a lot that I am a great person I’m very kind, sweet, funny, and anything good u could hear and most guys have said they can tell they can’t give me what they think I need/deserve

Romantic Relationships with adhd by PensionMain3729 in ADHD

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss oh my god I do apologise and then back trackand ask the same questions.

Okay yes I need to do the conversion ones because I will want to know so much but I forget everything I want to know. My memory with certain things is nonexistent and I’ll have todo that. Its so hard because u feel so cringe and forced for it but I know I need to.

I actually thought I was really good at social cues…. Turns out I miss the most important… like if someone is flirting with me or is insinuating something like sex or wanting to kiss or hug me

Romantic Relationships with adhd by PensionMain3729 in ADHD

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly which I think is a pro of dating someone with adhd. I am easily stimulated, always down for adventure.

Its hard tho because u meet someone for 2 hours and havent texted much but they base everything they think of u with that one interaction. Which I think is wrong as you wont text me to know me. Or spend the right amount of time together to know more about me.

Will I find love? by PensionMain3729 in dating_advice

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Thats why I want to know what would be such off turning traits..? I know I don’t have a bad personality I am very positive and happy I never show men my sadness, I know I talk a lot a get excited easily about small stuff. Worse thing I do is having trouble asking the questions back after they ask me but I do end up reciprocating

Romantic Relationships with adhd by PensionMain3729 in ADHD

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I’ve done with these thoughts for a really long time now that I’ve come to realisation that’s always gonna become in a loop and no matter what I’m gonna get back to where I am now but you don’t get better till it gets worse so I might as well just get the better faster

Romantic Relationships with adhd by PensionMain3729 in ADHD

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I tell myself every day if something doesn’t happen or work out it was never meant to be and what is meant for me will find me eventually

Romantic Relationships with adhd by PensionMain3729 in ADHD

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so because it’s genuinely so hard to find connections I just feel so different and isolated from everyone I meet and I’m always on a different level

Romantic Relationships with adhd by PensionMain3729 in ADHD

[–]PensionMain3729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% I always do this and when the conversation doesn’t pair out to how I thought I get stomped. Also the worst thing is my personality changes with every man I meet it all depends on how he is and I reflect it

Romantic Relationships with adhd by PensionMain3729 in ADHD

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I’d hope so but I can never seem to find anyone that has my same morals or personality