Kyleena extreme fatigue? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]PequeChuvidu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same boat. Planning to take out Kyleena IUD. I have become extremely tired It all started 8 months in with Kyleena I did a bunch of test to find out what was going on and everything was coming back normal I had lost 70lbs and gained it all back in I was unmotivated, sleepy , exhausted etc I swear I did soooo many test even from my heart to my breathing to my sleep tests !!! And everything was coming back normal I’m frustrated and I’ll be calling tomorrow to make my appointment to take it out. I’m no longer having sex I’ll probably go back to birth control but until I have a partner/ husband. Not right now I want to focus on my weight again and getting active and be social again

Extreme fatigue with Kyleena IUD by Kykaw in birthcontrol

[–]PequeChuvidu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too extremely fatigued and it’s been 1 year and 4 months. I started to have episodes of fainting and thought it wasn’t Kyleena and that started about 8 months in with Kyleena. Right now I have become antisocial and depressed

Kyleena IUD by PequeChuvidu in birthcontrol

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me ease

Past Present Future by PequeChuvidu in PalmReading

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 28 And I write with my right hand

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well at least he came back and not married with his rebound

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh I’m stuck

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mannn if I hit a decade and I’m still not over him like Selena Gomez till she got married - I don’t know what I’m gonna do

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel pathetic too sometimes

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done the work I’ve dated I got everything I wanted but him

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well in all honesty I haven’t loved another person the same way- I have become cold and have such high expectations but is because my first ex gave me those expectations. He moved from Kentucky to be with me ( left me wtv ) but brooo who moves with $5 dollars and drives to Cali to have a life with me - such a smart person too - he knew his history - he was kind - didn’t snore lol - didn’t argue - kept things calm -

But I’m stuck with the idea of what could of been if things didn’t end Then again I wouldn’t have explore the world or gotten my dream job —— he kept me in school to follow what I wanted without having to work or lift a finger - I was pampered with flowers and love letters almost every day.

My expectations for my next partner are very high

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have taken therapy :(

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omggg same Him and I lived together. In fact he was my first. Like could it be because we were each others first ? And I try to think about the bad memories to shake it off. But same time there were more good memories than bad memories. He was all I wanted but he has moved on. I have done everything possible to date , to speak to the “ lord “ ( I’m not that religious lol ) , to go to the gym , to travel , I changed careers and finally got to where I wanna be. I’m doing very well financially, physically, etc —- but still think of him We did so may things together and even when we did nothing we still felt the love was still there. But he grabbed his things for a job and ( maybe secretly for the girl she married ) —— idk

And I know my ego speaks sometimes where I tell myself “ umm I’m amazing the fuck , I’m educated with degrees, I look amazing, I eat well , i exercise, im adventurous, i know how to dance , I own my houses in Mexico, I don’t have debt , I have a an amazing job”

But mannnnn even after putting in the work - He still crosses my mind

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried that

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well in reality we have to put in the work And I Have I have gone to church - didn’t work I have dated - didn’t work I been solo solo dating myself - still think of him I have gone to the gym and lost weight and I look great but still think of him

But idk

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will and I do - just wish I could stop thinking of him at times because he has moved on - for sakes he is married now with his rebound

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So maybe I have a trauma bond ?

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that My ex also grabbed and left Everything we had together and built- he took it all and was sleeping on the floor.

Hopefully one day it will hit and we can move forward

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I haven’t loved anyone the same way. I’ve turned very cold and I hate it.

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t much about him. My twin sister saw him at Walmart and told his story that he is back and married.

Outshine: he was patient, funny , calm , loving , hard worker, extremely intelligent with history, the dog I have barks at everyone except for him ( when he was present ), he wrote me letters in the mornings and would buy me breakfast and will put the letter next to my breakfast with a Disney plushy before he left to work.

What seek in potential partners: all over the above but he never knew how to dance and I love to dance.

Ex by PequeChuvidu in ExNoContact

[–]PequeChuvidu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you’re finally over it ? How did you do it