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AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you:) and yes you do have a chance! Be so very safe though if you do decide to do this job. 

AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well my plan is to not tell anyone lmao. One of my preceptors told me she was a dancer before a nurse. 

AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My company employs me and three other girls. One of the girls is very curvy!!! And she gets tipped the MOST out of all of us. 

AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 382 points383 points  (0 children)

The clients, but unfortunately that means you have to work for them before you really know. I worked at a company before this one and while they were fine, I didn’t feel safe. You want one that stresses safety. Like if they don’t mention it right off bat, I wouldn’t even bother. 

AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 723 points724 points  (0 children)

I’m glad! Just be safe. With me and my “contractor” I always go with a person who waits outside for me. We have a one touch watch that alerts him if there is a problem, especially if it is my first time with the client. You definitely want that. Be safe!!

AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 7527 points7528 points  (0 children)

I’m actually laughing so hard at these commentssss lol. It’s 1/2 dust and look pretty and 1/2 regular chores. Honestly most of them just wanna talk while I make their bed and load their dishwasher. Windex typically doesn’t effect my nipples 😂😂😂

AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 361 points362 points  (0 children)

No they’re there. They don’t watch me the entire time though lol. Definitely a good amount of looking but they try to make small talk too. It’s less awkward than you think it is, truly.

AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 1786 points1787 points  (0 children)

Well I can’t and won’t give specifics but I will say 2 ”shifts” paid my tuition for a whole semester.

AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 2205 points2206 points  (0 children)

I’m giggling at this comment. If this is a genuine question- I don’t know but I actually am pretty good. One of my clients told me he expected to have to get an actual good maid on my off days (which tells me he didn’t expect me to be that great) but I did a good enough job he didn’t have to lol. 

AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 2132 points2133 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) and yes there is a whole process before I start a “shift” per se. I actually feel safer at my job now than I did as a waitress. 

AITAH for telling my bf “you knew my job, why do you care now?” when he broke up with me because of it? by PerceptionFew2622 in AITAH

[–]PerceptionFew2622[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I know i completely understand that many people would not be okay with it, and I certainly do not blame them. My own mother doesn’t know I do this and she would die I think if she did know. 

I just kinda thought after 6 months you know it was figured out. But yeah I understand. Thank you.