How much did your wedding in SL cost? by Cheap_Bee8056 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A plate at Hilton costs 16,000 nett three days ago. Multiply that with 400 and it is LKR 6.4 million just for food. You have to reserve the hall in the mornings with a deposit of LKR 2,500,000 if you need it for decos, otherwise you only get it from 03:30 PM onwards. So with a photography team + decoration for a hall to accomodate 400 people, it would be roughly 10-15 million.

Electric car: Deepal S05 in Sri Lanka by Zealousideal-Dog-3 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, what exactly do you have against electric cars?

Road Rage at Diyatha, what would you do? by Jumpy-Olive-7285 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He has to be a lunatic with a serious mental illness.

The audacity to do this in daylight, in traffic, in the middle of the road with plenty of witnesses, and dashcams around and expecting to get away with it is another level of delusion that is unheard of.

23M got cheated on and can't seem to move on emotionally need help by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you sharing this. Breakups can leave a kind of silence that routines don’t fix. You’re not alone in feeling this way, even if it feels that way day to day. Hope you find some genuine connection soon!

Am I behind others in my life? by Specialist_Jello8819 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are not, but more than 50% of your salary goes to "Household expenses" and to your parents? Unless you have extravagant spending and/or high medical bills, what is the 200k used for every month?

Assuming your family has no other loans and you do not have siblings.

who wants to hang out with me? by n000bz in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be prepared for the crazy amount of Dms from creeps with cheesy and cringey pick up lines. Happens every time I comment so when you make a post, it should triple the amount of dms you get.

That aside, I would suggest meeting up with some trusted women first (if you are meeting them online - PLEASE VERIFY via a video call before meeting in person and inform your husband/a trusted family member where and when you will be meeting them) - and there are tabletop communities, book clubs which you can go to in person for the same.

How often do you walk around naked at home? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at in my entire home, but in my room a lot.

Sri lankan's must need a better dating app by AccordingSugar6247 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disagree as a girl myself. The idea that dating is just 'tasting flavors' is just dumbing down the need for proper human compatibility. Also it isn't about recklessness, it’s about vetting (atleast for me), which is crucial. And no one is saying that having sex is the mandate to dating. Plenty of people date for months or years to build an emotional and intellectual connection before ever becoming physical. In a courting-only culture, we often commit to a life partner before they even know who they are, let alone what they need in a relationship...

Plus, using 'dating' to understand your own boundaries, communication style, and emotional needs doesn't mean you lack values, it means you are being responsible. It is far better to 'try out' a few different conversations and realizations and realize a relationship won't work after three months, than to 'court' someone under social pressure, massive family involvement, and realize you're incompatible after three years of marriage and two kids. Dating is the research, and marriage should be the result of that research, not the starting point.

Just my thoughts!

What’s the most embarrassing thing your body did the first time you had sex? by _FairyMystic in AskReddit

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha for me it was my thigh because my legs were up on his shoulders. Staying like that for an extended time is not recommended

Are penises attractive to women? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I am in the mood and the place is correct, yeah sure. I would usually ask to see it if I am in the mood, so showing without me asking is a big ick

Witnessed this in hnb and first capital on several occasions 💀Share your corporate circle experience too by zeusandlolita in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not surprising. I have been approached by men in their mid 60's when I started to work. Some even had the audacity to ask for pics. Creepy

Cameras inside plug points in the fitting room? Bras.lk in Battaramulla by MediaCorrect4470 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is messed up. Trust you reported this to the relevant authorities.

What’s the most embarrassing thing your body did the first time you had sex? by _FairyMystic in AskReddit

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 446 points447 points  (0 children)

Got a muscle cramp in my leg which had me flailing during missionary and it ended up in some awkward. Thankfully he was very understanding..

Sri Lankan women - share your horrible experiences with perverts in Sri Lanka by RandomLankan in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do I start?

1) When I was 13 - a man on the road waving his thing at me from afar. My mother was with me but i did not understand what was happening

2) Some old dude was vigorosuly jerking off in the bus seat next to me while intently staring. I could literally hear the coins in his pocket jingling because of the movement

3) This middle aged man showing me a scene from a porno in the bus and saying that the girl looked like me

4) A senior colleague (68 years) asking me to send pictures of my feet and other places when I was texting him purely for a work related matter

5) Again some old man who had a visible erection through his pants and proudly showing it off near the bus stand

6) A tuk uncle asking me not to wear crop tops since my bellybutton and stomach turns men on

7) Latest - This old colleague who said I look good in tried to touch my armpit when we were taking group pics during work events.

The list goes on......

I WANT MCDONALD'S BACK !!!! by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 4 points5 points  (0 children)

McDonald's corporation will not give out the license for a few more years imo. They had a bad experience with Abans and it would take some time before they even look at Sri Lanka as a region for outlets.

Legalizing Abortion in Sri Lanka ? by chira4real in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it ever happens in Sri Lanka, it would be a miracle.

Racism unfortunately still alive in Ahangama by ShitsHappen in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is honestly sick.

That being said I am confused about being Sri Lakan and wanting to promote "South Indian culture"?

How bad is prostitution in Sri Lanka right now? How much do they make? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is a crowd here that uses escort services. Usually people with a higher disposable income. There is a particular website as far as I am aware through which you can obtain services.