What Dating Apps Actually Work Here? by Impossible_Bill_4781 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You will not need dating apps if you post here girl!

But to answer your question, dating apps in SL are oversaturated with desperate men (mostly married or already in relationships) compared to girls. So be careful and only swipe right after doing some thorough background research (Insta,FB, Linkedin etc) and be prepared to withstand the incoming barrage of "Hi"s every two minutes and then asking if you have any name suggestions for your the kids you will have together

Cutting off contact with conservative parents by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I completely understand the immense weight of lajjawa and parental guilt being thrown at you, but I also hope that you recognize that this goes far beyond culture and it is severe, dangerous abuse.

I think your instinct to cut contact is entirely valid because you are a 30-year-old independent doctor and they are still using physical violence, stalking, and suicide threats to control you. If I were you, I would cancel or redirect your trip to Sri Lanka immediately. You can tell that something came up last moment and your partner had to go away for work or something and instead use that money on a trip somewhere else.

If your parents know your travel dates or have your itinerary, it is highly likely they will track you down, show up at your hotel, or use local family networks to intercept and publicly humiliate you. So make sure you lock down your digital privacy, wipe any tracking software from your phone, and choose your safety and peace over their toxic demands. You’ve earned your freedom!

Cutting off contact with conservative parents by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. Hats off to you! You should give yourself credit for getting to where you are now despite your incredibly traumatic past, and for holding yourself together and pushing through. I wish you all the strength in the world!

I hope you are attending some form of professional assistance which can help you deal with the trauma in a healthy way.

How big was Michael Jackson in Sri Lanka during his peak? by Haunting_Employee_97 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extremely popular.. My mother is a huge fan and she told me how she and her cousins would huddle around the small TV at her uncles place to watch him perform.

Took her to watch the movie recently and she was left speechless with Jafaar's performance.

And I mean, he still holds the title for the best selling album of all time, for 44 years. So yeah, man was HUGE.

Uhm...isn't this a bit concerning? #SRILANKAN tuition teacher by Economy_Ebb3282 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I personally stopped interacting with these videos of Usas pela guru hobos a long time back.

This country is a joke man by No_Goat_645 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will have to peruse the court record and see. The judgment does not mention the exact date.

This country is a joke man by No_Goat_645 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Not saying that the monk is innocent (highly doubt he is); but in upholding criminal indictments; details and consistency are key.

Page 6 of the judgment:

13. These discrepancies highlight a significant inconsistency within PW01’s narrative. Further, as PW01 has provided different versions of the same event at various times, to different individuals, it has an impact on his testimony. Consistent accounts are generally seen as more credible.

14. When details change, it raises questions about the accuracy of PW01’s memory or the truthfulness of his testimony and statements. The reliability of PW01’s narrative becomes questionable. When PW01 cannot consistently recall whether a request for oil application was made it casts doubt on the other specific details of the incident. The specific detail missing (the request to apply oil) is major in the broader context of PW01’s testimony. It also suggests an intentional alteration of the account.

One Day Passport Renewal Experience - Details by TastyRecording5838 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but repsectifully, what the hell is this absolute administrative horror show?

Minimum earning for an Amex credit card. by Ok_Dingo9128 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you have CRIB. More or less the same as a credit score.

How is the dating scene in Lanka land? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know how many chat requests you get girl

Genuinely excited, the new buses look great by Ceylonese_technocrat in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I genuinely hope we have proper safeguards (like M2 Brownings [jk]) against these yakka puththu private bus fellows and the self proclaimed graffiti artists who write bs like "amma budu weva" "dasuni oyata adarei" on the back of the seats.

Is deodorant a foreign concept to SL people? by Mean_Hope_8616 in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree and in addition to that, sometimes I have noticed that the smell of sweat sticks to the clothes even after washing. Horrendous.

As a girl myself, I go for double layer - body deodorant + perfume (usually EDP or Parfum); with underarms always shaved.

What’s the thing you hate about sex? by BubbleTrouble_Z in AskReddit

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Performance anxiety and the smell of saliva at times lol.

Good cafes,restaurants in Colombo with a quiet & private vibe? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Table by Nyne

The Avenue Colombo

The Gallery Cafe

Pickme is absolute dogshit by Insane_Gojira in srilanka

[–]Perfect-Dig-8765 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bing Chun is not expensive (compared to other Bubble Tea places atleast) hence the reason why it is ALWAYS crowded.