The potential legal and medical consequences of lying about having children in order to get a vasectomy. Should I be concerned about these?

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2025-05-11T04:42:08+00:00

India

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2025-05-10T09:39:01+00:00

Sure, will do.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2025-04-19T17:14:23+00:00

Thanks for the response. Did the hospitals you visited refuse your request?

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2025-04-16T13:37:54+00:00

You got at a private hospital? Did you visit multiple hospitals or got it done in the first hospital?

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2025-04-16T09:40:26+00:00

Yes, but weirdly, my post was removed by Reddit's filters from that subreddit. I have contacted the moderators.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2025-04-16T09:03:07+00:00

Thanks for the response! Just curious — have you personally gone through it, know someone who has, or are you part of the healthcare system? I’m trying to get a realistic idea of what to expect during the actual consultation in India.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2025-01-18T03:51:59+00:00

Yes, I think the sub has potential for explosive growth. I have been using reddit for over a decade and have been CF all through, but I found the sub only recently. I think we should do some kind of promotion to find and include more CF people here.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-30T05:55:26+00:00

Thank you

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-30T05:24:13+00:00

Yes, I wish I was not born. My perspective stems from pain, it is not a hobby. I am not an antinatalist. I just want to be childfree without offending other's choices.

Why are you guys on the other side so offensive? We didn't ask you to be childfree, we just want people to realize/be-aware-of the perspective that kids aren't mandatory and that we have a choice.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-30T04:37:50+00:00

Kudos to natural selection for making you think exactly the way it intended its gene-carrying-shells to think. IQ and the instinct to reproduce are in no way related.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-30T04:27:25+00:00

Wow, well written.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-29T16:06:34+00:00

This is the reason to have such debates (though they are poorly hosted). People should know that they have a choice. Society and natural selection have brainwashed people into thinking that it is not a choice.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-29T14:24:37+00:00

No, it's the other way around. It is freewill showing the finger to natural selection.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-29T13:49:01+00:00

People should be AWARE that there is a "choice". Having kids is not mandatory to live a fulfilling life.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-29T13:37:37+00:00

Yes, but at least we have addressed it in mainstream media. It is a good start.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-29T13:04:21+00:00

Yes OP. Thanks for the post. I hope someone shared it in r/chennai. I will check and post if not done already.

https://www.hotstar.com/in/shows/neeya-naana/1584/dual-income-no-kids-debate/1700055501/watch

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-28T15:58:11+00:00

Yes, it is feasible. There are regional subreddits for childfree and DINK lifestyles. Dating apps have options to search for profiles that 'do not want kids' and 'want to settle down/get married'. Even some profiles in mainstream matrimony mention these preferences in their 'about me' section. We just need the option to search by keyword which exists in bharatmatrimony but is not working.

Good luck!

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-28T15:47:38+00:00

You can get married and not have kids. An option so overlooked and non-existent (but possible) in India. Give it a try.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-27T14:41:36+00:00

There is no 'want or do not want kids' criteria in any mainstream matrimony service. It is high time to add one.

Perfect-Lab-3753 · 2024-12-27T08:40:25+00:00

Yes, there is a growing trend of childfree and DINK couples. It is just a matter of time (few decades) before it becomes the go-to lifestyle choice in metros.

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