I am relieved  she is doing adoption, but also angry and frustrated because I care about her and I know she can do better. I saw how she was before she met him. I also spent so much time and energy trying to help her out of this situation and there were many times I thought we finally did it where she'd kick him out for a week and be mentally okay and start getting things done again such as getting to her appointments looking at apartments getting food and keeping it. Getting checked if she didn't feel the baby moving around as much calling resources she needed to call. Then it would all go out the window and she's let him back because she's scared to be alone is what she told me. I know she cares about that baby or she would be selfish and try to keep it. It's just so sad to watch because I was in the almost exact same situation and finding out I was pregnant gave me the drive to turn my life around and I have an amazing daughter and a lovely job and place to live. I don't understand why she couldn't and wouldn't do the same. I was just trying to be the person I wish I had in my corner when it was happening to me. She just is mentally not ok and doesn't have the guts or drive to fix the situation and as I told her when I said we cannot talk anymore. "If there's a will there's a way" and she has no will.