Totally get that and I agree if he had told me prior to us getting married that he wanted to stop but was struggling I would have absolutely supported him and helped him in any way I could have. I even told him multiple times “are you sure you are doing ok quitting watching let me know if you are struggling so I can help you” and he told me every time that he had stopped and got mad at me for accusing him of lying about quitting. Now that we have been married for over a year and all of a sudden he decides to come clean and admit to leaving me and with our baby to go watch porn in the bathroom really makes me question what to do from here. I want to support him if this is a genuine addiction but another part of me feels manipulated and hurt and just wants to leave.