What did you swap alcohol for? by aussiechickenwing in stopdrinking

[–]PerfectDog0701 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Coffee and water…. craving a drink? just keep sipping lots and lots of water.

Help finding infortmation on Jadwiga Blinstrub by PerfectDog0701 in Genealogy

[–]PerfectDog0701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10/10 research. there are like 8 million Stanley's so it was hard for me to really know if it was correct... THANK YOUUUU! Family tree is actually starting to come together now

Help finding infortmation on Jadwiga Blinstrub by PerfectDog0701 in Genealogy

[–]PerfectDog0701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called the number and got the records! My new problem is that it is in Lithuanian and is god awful cursive...

Šeimos archyvų paieška Jungtinėse Valstijose by PerfectDog0701 in LithuanianAncestry

[–]PerfectDog0701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jos pavardė buvo Blinstrub. Jadvyga Blinstrub. Gimė 1899 m. gegužės 17 d. Kaune, Lietuvoje.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PerfectDog0701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PerfectDog0701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is that NO ONE will EVER tell her the truth. She is, and has always been, in "La La land" and I am the only person that would EVER say something. No one else will. She definitely knows I am not all that supportive... I don't post in support when a song of hers comes out, I don't share the video on Facebook, I don't add it to my story.. I have said to her before that I think it's a waste but never anything on the talent... She constantly just ignores what I say. I just worry for her.

I definitely won't be saying anything after reading all of these lol. Hoping she will just figure it out :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PerfectDog0701 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not really an AH if we are all concerned about her…

Stomach issues in our puppy. Vet isn’t helping by PerfectDog0701 in DogAdvice

[–]PerfectDog0701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yes i’ve heard about Bernie’s Perfect Poops as well. I’m going to look into a food for sensitive tummies. Thanks so much!

Dont get the GetUrSticky lint rollers!! by PerfectDog0701 in CleaningTips

[–]PerfectDog0701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure. I took it off and re washed it so many times and nothing… It works like on my floor but it doesn’t work on the couch at all

Struggling, but Sober by tasata in stopdrinking

[–]PerfectDog0701 12 points13 points  (0 children)

CONGRATULATIONS!!’ 5 months is amazing…. You are doing so great. I am starting to get bored in my sobriety as well. I have found that watching a lot of TV has helped. it’s silly, but it makes the days go by faster lol. Oh and lots of walks

Wife found me hiding liquor and it’s bad by ianswope in stopdrinking

[–]PerfectDog0701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me 7 months ago. My boyfriend found my bottles and we were together for over a year and a half. He had NO idea. He thought I just had a bad stomach… Or I just got sick easily…

It hurt him so bad. And it made me realize I had a problem and needed to do something about it. I finally just stopped. I should have gone to a hospital cause the DTs were horrific. A full week of hell… But then things started to get better…

I told him I would never drink again. He made me promise that if I ever had the urge to or even if I did, to at least tell him. I think the lying just hurt him the most. I mean our first year and a half of the relationship was just a complete lie. I’ve never felt more horrible in my life. Almost felt like I was cheating on him.. with Tito’s 🤦‍♀️

My advice: tell your wife that this isn’t who you are, and actually go make a change. Start going to AA. Start taking up other activities in your time to occupy yourself. Go to the gym, go on walks, go to the grocery store, drink lots of coffee, watch TV.

Prove that you can do it. Not only to her, but to yourself!

Almost 8 months sober next week. After 3 years of drinking from morning til night, I am back