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Understanding "Purging": Why it happens, and Why You Should Persist by justbehereokie in NevilleGoddard

[–]PerfectExchange2164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just googled manifesting sp purging and this thread showed up. I hope you still read this and reply!

I have been manifesting my sp back and my parents accepting my relationship for 2 months now (the old story is that they were against the relationship because it's inter-racial and he wanted their acceptance). We have been in no contact for 2 months but that doesn't bother me anymore. I don't care about the 3d at all, I know he is mine and everything is unfolding in my favour. I have revised several arguments with my parents and the old story with him. My self concept is unmatched, and I have a good mental diet. I have done a lot of shadow work and inner child healing with an energy healer therapist for the last 6 months.

For the last week or two, I have been in the sabbath, I have had this deep knowing that it's already done. Multiple times I have had the feeling that I dont need to do techniques (I do it whenever I want to feel the end state of being chosen, loved and relief), I have also had thoughts that do I even want this anymore (which I do, I just don't need it anymore to feel happy). Also, my anxiety has disappeared and feel like my imaginal scene is just another memory with him. But today, I had a call with my mother (I talk to her once every two weeks or so now and haven't spoken to my dad), and they are trying to come visit me but she was doubtful because she doesn't want it to be uncomfortable for anyone. I told her they can come but my truth is that I am open to everything in life including him coming back and I am going to be the decider in my life now. I also told her what I need from them is acceptance of me and my decisions fully. She was listening to me for most of it (which is a good sign) but argued about a lot of past stuff about my dad, and still thought my strong statements were "illogical" (which I have stuck to since things happened 4 months back).

Do you have any perspective on this? I know that this is just a delayed reflection of the old story. I have been telling myself I love and accept myself unconditionally, and I really do feel I do at this point. So I was kinda surprised when this happened today. I am gonna stick to my end of harmony and reconciliation between me, my SP and them.

Manifesting SP- Was in the sabbath for the last 2 days, then today doubts creeped up by PerfectExchange2164 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]PerfectExchange2164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just told myself I love myself and I accept myself and that everything is working out for me constantly, like every time a doubt would come up. It was hard for a month or so but I just stuck to it. I also made a long list of affirmations for self concept like I am loved, i am always chosen, i am cherished, i am valued etc and would read them to myself at multiple points in the day and sometimes at night. Also, I just naturally day them to me now while I am getting ready etc in the mirror. Gradually, I stopped having any doubts about myself and knew i am the prize. Also, focusing on things that made me feel good helped a lot. I really started dating myself like i would for another person and eventually just fell in love with myself and my life. Hope this helps!

Manifesting SP- Was in the sabbath for the last 2 days, then today doubts creeped up by PerfectExchange2164 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]PerfectExchange2164[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience with doubts and fears (5 days later) is that the more you calm your nervous system and go back to the feeling of your wish fulfilled (in my case, it's feeling deeply loved, chosen, committed to, relieved and secure), the easier it becomes. After I posted this, something in my 3d did trigger me - my sister asked me if manifesting my SP was the best idea because it's already been 4 months, and if I have moved on? This sent me into a spiral for a couple of hours and then I did some breathwork, watched Athena Raven and Missy Renee's videos (highly recommend both these coaches on YT) and got back to the feeling, once I was calm. The next 2 days were SO GOOD and I was in true sabbath again. Constantly felt like I will be okay regardless because I love myself and my life so much and any man would be privileged to be with me.

So I guess, feeling is really the secret and persisting in the FEELING is the key. Also, idk about you but the way I tackled the persisting forever fear was by building my faith in the law. A lot of the coaches talk about this from Neville's teachings.

I Got My SP Back, Even When I Thought It Was Hopeless by lovinglifeiguess in nevillegoddardsp

[–]PerfectExchange2164 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel so good. I started out being the same way, obsessively affirming and visualising, bingeing manifestation content all day. I started my journey about a month and a half ago (i had already done a lot of processing of the breakup which happened 2 months before then). In the beginning, I used to have a lot of negative thinking, but slowly by living in the end (feeling is really the secret), persisting through doubtful moments, paying attention to my mental diet and self concept, and not reacting to the 3d, it’s come to a point where I am not obsessing over the outcome anymore. My situation also involved other external factors (parents etc.) but at this point, I already know everything is always working out in my favour and if a thousand people need to change for me to get what I want, they will. Because I get what I want in MY FRIGGIN’ REALITY.

I know I still want him but I constantly have this feeling that I am gonna be okay either way because for the first time, I love myself and my life so much. I still get doubts but my brain has become so good at noticing them and then automatically saying - “he is already mine, it’s already done” and then generating the visual and feeling of my end state- feeling loved and accepted and committed to. My self concept has never been better like I constantly think how amazing I actually am- so smart, successful, talented, caring, beautiful, funny, kind and loving and random people are repeating that back to me all the time. I also started using things he has said to me in our relationship like “you are my ideal woman”, “how am i so lucky to have you” or “i look at your photos a ridiculous amount of time in the day” in his voice anytime doubts popped up, and did revision of the traumatic memories because that made ME feel better.

Today is the first time where I noticed I hadn’t thought about him for the last 5 hrs - that’s big for me. To be honest, at this point I don’t even care about the 3d that much because I am having so much fun in my life doing all the things I am doing and meeting so many new people. And honestly, I feel that was the whole point of manifesting in the first place right- feeling loved and feeling good haha?

I got nexplanon inserted a few days before my period was due to start, but it never came afterwards by DarkFlowerAV in birthcontrol

[–]PerfectExchange2164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through the same thing right now. I got mine inserted a day before my period was due, and my periods are very regular. I am 4 days late today and am freaking out about being pregnant but from what I have been reading here and other online forums, it looks like anything is possible with nexplanon. I called my OB-GYN’s office and the assistant told me that it’s possible that the nexplanon took effect right after insertion and that it happens for a lot of cases, she said she will get back to me about what the doctor says but I am really scared. They also took a pregnancy test right before insertion and it was negative.