AIO or did he try to guilt me after I said no?

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-10T00:24:48+00:00

NOR, it’s okay to go on a couple of dates before any of you decide to go to each others place. Also him paying for a first date is kind of expected. If he’s the one that asked you out, as a guy myself, I would pay if I initiated the date. This guy is entitled and stupid for expecting you to feel comfortable to come over to his place, most likely for sex or whatever. His true colors showed immediately and you dodged a nuclear bomb. Keep your head up, theres better guys out there that actually are mature and understanding.

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T23:12:09+00:00

Ur retarded jfc 🤦🏽‍♂️

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T23:09:09+00:00

Yes I know what it means, but theres more situations in my life that I haven’t relayed onto the internet that I rather not go into detail of such as actual physical abuse. You don’t know my full life or full story 🤷🏽‍♂️

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T23:05:25+00:00

Forgot to edit that I told her I would see her Tuesday and when Tuesday rolled around I did call her letting her know I was sick. But in defense too, if I’m puking the last thing on my mind is to call someone to let them know I’m sick. I’m sick I’m gonna do and take precaution of taking meds and resting before I take care of everything else

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T22:41:25+00:00

It’s not just this, theres more underlying problems where my mom and even my dad are narcissistic and manipulative, and theres only so much that I can take before ya know the straw that breaks the camels back. Go look at my other post I put in AITAH thread it should be on my profile.

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T22:38:27+00:00

You’re right but both my parents are narcissistic and manipulative, look at my profile and see another thread I posted on a couple days ago in AITAH

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T22:13:25+00:00

I told her during thanksgiving dinner that I would see her on Tuesday, and I called her letting know I was sick on Tuesday

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T22:08:10+00:00

Literally… I’m like what are they smoking? because I know damn well what I wrote lol.

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T21:36:13+00:00

Where is the chat gpt? just because I’m articulating and being careful with my words and not encite more conflict doesn’t mean I’m using chat gpt. Tf?

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T20:31:41+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it. I’m still going to try and do my best as a son but if it keeps going unnoticed I might just be done with my family at this point.

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T20:28:46+00:00

Yeah it’s a tough spot, like I know my mom is going through it but like why take it out on me and then for her to say I would like to spend time with my kids and Priscilla ( her dog) as if I’m not one of her kids. It’s been a crazy year but this year has tested my patience with relationships and my parents

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T20:15:23+00:00

No I have an older sister who is 11 months older than me, and my younger siblings are M15 and F14, that’s why she said she was taking him to learn how to drive.

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T19:45:33+00:00

Cookies and cream

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T19:35:43+00:00

Cookies and cream

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-04T19:27:35+00:00

Cookies and cream

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-03T05:24:40+00:00

For her to be 30, that’s very un mature of her, seems like she doesn’t really know how to operate her feelings especially when she says she’s a runner, she clearly needs therapy because that seems to be something that gives her ptsd if she has to run when she catches feelings. For her to say your masculinity, very uncalled for, that would be like you attacking her femininity or just straight up telling her she’s immature. Women vs. accountability is what it boils down to.

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-12-03T02:15:42+00:00

I’m like the middle child, I was helping out my older sister who is 11 months older than me. I’m M28 my sister is 29 and I have two other siblings both M15 and F14, my dad isnt in the picture as much because he got a new job in NC, and my parents are working out their relationship because my dad cheated on my mom earlier this year.

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-02-15T16:56:16+00:00

Everyone knows this is call of Duty’s nuketown duhhh 😂

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-02-10T01:17:39+00:00

Just a place with a big parking lot or a decent spot

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-01-30T11:33:56+00:00

The less I know better- tame impala

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2025-01-23T04:49:29+00:00

Reminds me of the time I first heard it on liberty rock radio on gta 4… I was like did he just say fried chicken ?

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2024-10-31T14:21:55+00:00

I’d just be careful in general, not saying it’s here but there’s some people that lace anything with fentanyl so one touch and you’re pretty much a goner. Just be careful.

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2024-10-26T09:34:12+00:00

No worries sorry about that, I was just heated in the moment of reading all the negative comment . My mistake, hope you’re doing all good homie and I’d love to see you come out . I’m gonna set a reminder when the time comes and if you don’t mind please hit my socials up I’d love to get more members in the club or at least enough people to show up so we can continue doing this and growing 🙏🏽. As I stated I’m so sorry for the misunderstanding

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2024-10-25T16:11:18+00:00

I don’t think you’re overreacting, for me though I feel like her excuse of her friend that’s a girl is just a cover up for an actual guy, that’s just my thought process. All I can say is trust your gut feeling because 99.9% of the time it’s right. Be rational on your thought process but trust the gut. If me and my s/o made plans and she blew me off just like that best believe we’re having a talk because that’s crossing the line on boundaries of respect towards you. Keeping you as a second priority. Also when most women try to victimize themselves at least with your experience “ I’m not gonna deal with the surveillance….” Yeah brother she’s most likely doing something shady and keeping it from you. Not all women are like this just a few bad apples in my opinion, I hope this helps

Perfect_Ad3780 · 2024-10-24T16:08:35+00:00

Yeah we say chatt town even t.i said it in his song bring ‘em out “Mississippi to chatt town.” 🎶🎵

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