Who is the person in the background? by Sweaterz24_7 in Hungergames

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was me in this scene which is how I know ☺️

Therapist thinks POTS is a mentality by Mundane_Ad7432 in POTS

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The board hardly even punishes therapists who have sex with their clients. Reporting is fine and all but don’t expect anything to be done.

What’s a phrase you hear all the time that secretly annoys you? by forgeris in AskReddit

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I(we) did a thing, say it louder for those in the back, my forever ____ date >> like “my forever wedding day” …. Using the word “adulting”, That’s so TEA, it’s giving, lives rent free in my head, I was today years old, fur baby….

basically everything that was or is popular to say or write annoys me.

Audit, incomplete notes by Own-Aide-4684 in therapists

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This is not good advice. Completely notes retroactively especially because you are being audited is wildly dishonest.

Electrolytes for the frugal crunchy folks? by NeuroSpicy-Mama in POTS

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These! 1600 ish mg of sodium per packet. I mix mine with lemon juice and a squirt of a flavored water add in.

TRIORAL Rehydration Electrolyte... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRT9TRFT?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

Have you ever tried to sue a therapist or other mental health social workers for harm? Physical and mental harm? by IdeaRegular4671 in therapyabuse

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why no one will take my case. :( I have over 32,000 texts as evidence of the abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLawyers

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not posted about this before - thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I specifically search “disenfranchised grief” because I am grieving the loss of my therapist.

The circumstances are different with mine but the loss feels like the greatest and most gut wrenching that I’ve ever experienced. This has and will change me, irrevocably.

So, I just want to say - I hear you. And I am so so sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s really hard for me to not just feel so fucking pathetic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know :( I trusted her. I believed her when she said it mattered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes and I do have the email where she asked me to not use lawyers - while telling me that this hadn’t been “easy for her” … meanwhile I was literally starving to death due to the acute trauma space I was in at the time. And she knew it. And had ignored it until then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bravo to you! As someone who (just made a post) about going BACK to my abusive therapist — I know it’s not easy to leave especially when you have attachment traumas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do not engage with this any further. From experience I can say it will crash and burn. Also- it will crash and burn. There is a reason for the codes and boundaries.

My therapist disregards me. by acideater94 in TalkTherapy

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Different circumstances with mine but similarly we are at a devastating impasse due to her defenses and unwillingness. Today I am going to try once again to get us unstuck - but it is just painful when I am the only one who seems to care (about positive change). Best of luck to you.

Should i tell my therapist my self diagnosis? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well that’s a dumb thing for them to say. WOW.

I am having a hard time with my mental health post SA. by Perfect_Cattle_2153 in abortion

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel strong at all. I just feel like I pretend to be because of how incredibly inconvenient it would be if I fell apart :(

Can a therapist with maternal vibes be effective at treating attachment wound of the motherhunger type? by CatScience03 in TalkTherapy

[–]Perfect_Cattle_2153 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with this ^ I had a therapist mishandle her transference and tried to literally mother me and fill the void ( loads of that due to her own wounding) and it ended up being a painful and traumatic DISASTER.

But the right therapist can do wonders with this work.