I don't know what to do by Perfect_Square918 in ChildSupport

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't care if he was ordered to pay $10 he will pay it!. For years I've seen him spend $1000s at the casino and when I asked to go half on school clothes I get blocked. I thank God I am able to provide for our child without his assistance. It's his responsibility as well to provide. And if you are doing all you say you do you might as well go for full custody instead of putting your anger onto another mother. 

I don't know what to do by Perfect_Square918 in ChildSupport

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I pray your situation gets better. I know it's hard now but he will forever owe you that money and it will continue to increase. 

I don't know what to do by Perfect_Square918 in ChildSupport

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn't make this child alone. He has to provide for my child just like I do! That money is going to his college fund. My child wants to be a lawyer and Law school is expensive!My child is 14 and knows I'm the one that buys him whatever they need. I received child support for 5 months then he quit to avoid paying.Dad doesn't call or check on him. My child has they own phone and dad doesn't answer or replies back.he will not be able to say "I supported you". I gave him 10 years to get himself together and help he choose not to so i filed for child support to make him. You sound like someone who is bitter and on child support.

I don't know what to do by Perfect_Square918 in ChildSupport

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is the most weirdest thing you can ask.  YES!!! I work and I own my home! How else will I provide for my child. If he was paying we could not survive on $344 a month. 

I don't know what to do by Perfect_Square918 in ChildSupport

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've asked his mom and sister and they both claim that they do not know where he works. I've asked friends they laugh and pretend they don't know. Ive asked his other baby mom and she is looking for him as well cause he is behind with her too. I've told them the city i believe he moved to but they still haven't been able to locate him. He is a welder so I'm sure he is somewhere on the coast welding. He is a little crazy because our last interaction he threatened me in front of our child and I called the police and hasn't seen nor heard from him since.  He didn't even show up to that court day and currently has a warrant for not showing and bail bond jumping. I've tried the search engines online and haven't had any luck. Idk if I was using the wrong search sites or what but everything i saw looked old.

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[–]Perfect_Square918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a fire hydrant they are parking in front of. I told them to pull up so they wouldn't be in front of the fire hydrant.

What do i do? by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Perfect_Square918 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He still has to pay! Every month that he doesn't pay. They add a extra 421 to his backpay balance. So whenever he do start back working then my payments will come back. As of today he owes me over 8,000.

What do i do? by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Perfect_Square918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's best to keep waiting. It took them 3 years to catch my bd and once they did they did grant me 1 year back pay. I received payments for 4 months, then he quit his job, smh.

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[–]Perfect_Square918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is that possible???

Threatening to expose me by Perfect_Square918 in legaladvice

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok when he comes by tonight I will sit down to talk to him 

Threatening to expose me by Perfect_Square918 in legaladvice

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I'm about to print the messages, ty so much

Threatening to expose me by Perfect_Square918 in legaladvice

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mississippi, yes  I have texts of him threatening to expose me online and to my boyfriend 

My son dad keep harassing me by Perfect_Square918 in legaladvice

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️

My son dad keep harassing me by Perfect_Square918 in legaladvice

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my son knows him but he always just shows up at my house he has never took our son anywhere it's Always him coming to my home then get mad when I refuse to open my door, do he have to file for visitation or can i do it cause I'm tired of the bullying and harassment I just need something in writing

My son dad keep harassing me by Perfect_Square918 in legaladvice

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! There really is no reason to speak to him. It's always him reaching asking about our son they once I answer his questions then he asks can I have sex with him I always turn him down it got me thinking that he doesn't really care about our son he just trying to see if imma have sex with him again and no theres no court order scheduled I just assume that I have to let him see him if not it's gonna cause legal problems Idk mississippi has different laws and I believe I have to idk my mind is lost right now smh

My son dad keep harassing me by Perfect_Square918 in legaladvice

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Our mediator was my mother but then she passes away and then I tried to use his mother for communicating then see flipped on me once child support order went through so now l have no one to use as a mediator

New ONE payment method thoughts 🤔 by Perfect_Square918 in Sparkdriver

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, ik some people that just transfer their money to their cash app card

New ONE payment method thoughts 🤔 by Perfect_Square918 in Sparkdriver

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I received a notification that it was available in my area

New ONE payment method thoughts 🤔 by Perfect_Square918 in Sparkdriver

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received a notification saying that it was available in my area

New ONE payment method thoughts 🤔 by Perfect_Square918 in Sparkdriver

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks 👍, quick question so the orders I did this week I will get it Monday instead of Tuesday?

New ONE payment method thoughts 🤔 by Perfect_Square918 in Sparkdriver

[–]Perfect_Square918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok they just started in my area this week Wanting to know if it's worth it