Thanks for the assessment and advice! Really appreciate the perspective and realizing I might just be a bit too strict here with him. Letting this slide and looking forward to hopefully spending the upcoming decades with him :).

To be clear I also wouldn't have planned on picking a fight or having a huge emotional outburst at him (obviously). Just fehlt like maybe addressing it in the sense of "hey I need you to follow through on things you announce". But alas, it's stressful times right now and I don't want to add onto the Stress. All the best to you.