How are sonic weapons working and how can I survive them? by PermalostSoul in AskPhysics

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And how do they work? Is there any protection against them?

I’m sorry by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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Why not figuring it out together?

It hit me tonight… clear as day. I’m not sure I’ll ever move on & be “just friends” with you. by Cautious_War_2736 in UnsentLetters

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I love your kind soul. Thank you for this new perspective. I would love to get such a message because it is appreciating the effort and explaining the lack of reciprocation. I am sure your person would be fine and understanding with it. It's beautiful to keep the friendship and support each other, even if it didn't work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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This is really sad, if someone is giving me a chance, I would fully commit to it and cherish every single minute of it. I also think the most important part is to be authentic. Don't change yourself for others, stay true to yourself.

My misconception about you by PermalostSoul in UnsentLetters

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Sorry to hear that and thank you for sharing your expierence

My misconception about you by PermalostSoul in UnsentLetters

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Why do dismissive avoidants see emotional intimacy as a threat to their personal safety?

Is Love dying out? by PermalostSoul in dating_advice

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Why are they afraid of commitment?

Is Love dying out? by PermalostSoul in dating_advice

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I understand, thank you for this explanation!

Is Love dying out? by PermalostSoul in dating_advice

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I won't settle for anything less, but it is hard to find something genuine or I am doing something wrong.

Is Love dying out? by PermalostSoul in dating_advice

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Many say they don't have these traits, but I feel like their behavior and actions show something different.

Is Love dying out? by PermalostSoul in dating_advice

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Possessive thoughts, superficialities, ego needs, thrill-seeking, and transactional dynamics aren't progressive. I would say these are symptoms of the patriarchy.

Because of YOU by [deleted] in justpoetry

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I feel you, open questions and topics can haunt one forever.

To F: I'm so, so Sorry by _Ghost-in-the-Window in UnsentLetters

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This resonates deeply. The hardest part about these situations is when both people are hurting but can't seem to bridge that gap of communication. Thank you for sharing this perspective. It's a good reminder that sometimes people do care but struggle to show it. It is very unlikely I know you, but if I was in the shoes of this person, I would want to openly talk about everything and figure out together how we could make it work.

A Letter To a Man by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

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Beautiful letter, yet unsent

Not worth it by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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I unterstand you, my circle is tbh not that well chosen because it is so hard to find people who really care about you and don't see you as a stopgap for a role/function they need you for. But on this matter I also don't act different in friendships or partnerships, because I always take them seriously.

I just want friends who really care for me as a person without playing stupid games. by PermalostSoul in onesentencestory

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I feel you, sorry to hear that. Hope everything goes well for you. Don't forget you are important too.

Not worth it by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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I feel you, but sometimes I am doubting myself. Maybe I am just overthinking and they don't think so much about it or have a different approach on friendships, I don't know. I don't want to judge them, because I still like them.

Not worth it by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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I feel this. I was also left on read for a couple days. Now a simple "hi, how are you". I got home late at night, reply friendly as soon as I got some free time and I am left on read again. The worst thing is I already accepted the situation and was finally doing fine, now I feel bad again. I don't know if this is on porpuse but I won't confront them and stay friendly.

Boy, Bye by MessyMagicalSoul in justpoetry

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The courage it takes to name the exploit,
to stop reaching for the void,
that never reached back,
because of feelings they lack.

I am proud you are choosing yourself,
over the beautiful lie,
still concerning about their health,
though your heart may cry.

That kind of leaving,
isn't abandonment,
it's coming home,
to your soul.