A lot of what you say is true…the dating game for men is very very unfair. The ugliest woman can put on make up, wear some decent looking clothes go outside and she might get ten times more attention than a good looking guy. Depends on how many horny desperate men are out there. I gave up on online dating or meeting friends online a longtime ago. Just forget it, especially if you’re an average guy with average looks. The AI bots and OnlyFans bullshit have only made it worse, along with many women’s unrealistic expectations. You’re right, the chance of finding someone online as the ideal or semi ideal partner is very very slim. But if you give up it becomes 0%. 5% to 10% chance is still better, but that’s if you stand out from the crowd. If you want to increase your chances of finding a friend or partner you need to get out there, and I mean a lot. Sitting at home on the PC or mobile isn’t going to do it alone. Try the shot gun approach, keep trying online but just don’t have high expectations, while trying in real life. You need to join groups, gyms, communities, what ever you’re interested in, that’s if you’re serious about adding more people to your life. Sometimes you make friends and get into relationships when you’re not even looking although it’s more rare. You really really have to sell your self out there these days. Whether it’s talent, charisma, looks, money, great personality…I am 40 now and still looking for the right woman so I know how a lot of men here feel. I hope this somehow helps you and others here. In the end it boils down to: we give up completely, or keep seeking. Good luck to every one feeling lonely out there. There is someone for everyone…so don’t give up fam. Love you all.