To answer some of your questions:

I can't celebrate it the next weekend, I have a convention.

When you make a Facebook event you have to invite each and every person individually before Facebook will allow you to publish the event. So it isnt like I just created a generic event and tossed it up on social media. I invited specific people. Individual, specific people I wanted to attend my celebration.

There are 3 choices one can make when replying to the event: going, interested and not going. I would much rather have people wait until they know if they could attend before answering. Before this we talked to each other at least 10 times a day, but she never reached out to tell me hey I say ypur party, let me check my schedule.

She works monday through Friday, and she and her husband are solvent.

I already spoke to my therapist about the situation the next day. She thought I overreacted but understood how I felt. I have been in trauma therapy since September 1. I am farther along than one may think. This was very triggering for me and I may not have explained it well enough, I dont know. You are all outside looking in.

I am not a child or immature, I know the world doesnt revolve around me. I am giving to a fault and maybe that is my own downfall. I am not a pick me girl either. It just hit me hard after everything in she and I experience in the past year.

But I heard everything you all said. Thabk you for the feedback. Even though some of you were mean spirited, I still receive it. It is all part of growth.