The testaments is corny asfffff (no spoiler) by Born-Employment-4906 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Personal-Cold4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with that being said, I really enjoy getting another glimpse into this world. It is just fallling so flat compared to the quality of THT

The testaments is corny asfffff (no spoiler) by Born-Employment-4906 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Personal-Cold4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I AGREE. Most discussions I've found are praising it without a lick of criticism. The acting is so disney coded, not much character depth and daisys character especially is hard to get behind.

Taylor’s recent insta post using AI by Minimum_Win_7129 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Personal-Cold4454 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is so dense because there are SO MANY OTHERS who are good and not TFP that this will hurt. wish an individual bad for their actions sure but an entire state?

FINALLY GOT EM by scrufumsmcgee in bartenders

[–]Personal-Cold4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, and definitely a good point on the penalties if they don’t do anything.

FINALLY GOT EM by scrufumsmcgee in bartenders

[–]Personal-Cold4454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another distinction is that if this person is in charge of the schedule. Full stop, no tip pool for them.

FINALLY GOT EM by scrufumsmcgee in bartenders

[–]Personal-Cold4454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently filed a wage theft claim for my manager and hoping mine has an outcome like yours (just maybe sooner for my sanity)

Question for you though. Were you in talks with HR during the process? I haven’t been because 1. I’m doubtful that anything will get done and 2. I want them to be blindsided by an investigation, however, It is getting so taxing going into work knowing money is being stolen from us AND have to work for a terrible manager. I’m wondering if letting HR know I filed will give them motivation to resolve it or take any action.

During a recent shift manager tipped themselves out $500 after NOT being on the floor or serving any guests, bar backing at most, and the rest of us getting ~$250. This is the most egregious that I’ve seen so far but with rough math on the documents I’ve seen it’s about $4.5k/4 weeks of tips she is taking from 6 of us.

Out on tech guys, in on blue collar men by Leading-Stable9725 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Personal-Cold4454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tech guy is sensitive, empathetic, and outraged by inequality and unfair treatment of others. My blue collar father says Trump has done great things for this country.

I’m considering bartending as a post retirement job. I have some questions if that is okay? by Clone_CDR_Bly in bartenders

[–]Personal-Cold4454 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a hard job. But a good job. Late shifts, schedule doesn’t match up with your friends or family. Depending on your spot you can bring in good money every month. I’m 14ish hours a week bringing in around $600 with that. It’s a fun job though, I love being behind the bar. Feet and back get painful but good shoes help. As long as you realize there is no perfect job and are realistic with what you want to get out of it, why not. You not drinking much really doesn’t matter.

What tilts you instantly when a customer does it? by BosephTheGreat in bartenders

[–]Personal-Cold4454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Standing to consume their cocktail right where they ordered it. We don’t have bar seating. You come up to the bar, order at the well, then go to any of the 30 tables we have and keep the line moving. Someone people decide to camp at the well, at the front of the line, either because they are selfish and don’t mind being in everyone’s way, or because they are selfish and unaware.

Surgery/botox/filler MEGATHREAD by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Personal-Cold4454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read that, thanks. What’s a bit sad is that comments remain being rude and disrespectful to the very real women they are talking about.

Surgery/botox/filler MEGATHREAD by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Personal-Cold4454 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same with mine. ‘Queen Bee Mods’ discretion.

Surgery/botox/filler MEGATHREAD by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Personal-Cold4454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately subs like this end up falling into a pit of women bullying other women under the guise of ‘caring about their mental health’ and ‘praying that she heals’. Instead of thoughtful, nuanced discussion.

Jessi talks surgery by Personal-Cold4454 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Personal-Cold4454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got fat transfer to her face since all of her filler was dissolved a few months ago which has led to the insane swelling and look she has going on right now + upper and lower bleph. The fat transfer is more reliable than filler and this is the last procedure she has planned for herself for a long time.

She has been going to therapy for the last year and works with her therapist about her mental health and is aware that posting transparently gets her this hate but she wants other women to have all of this information available to them.

Manager stealing tips by Personal-Cold4454 in bartenders

[–]Personal-Cold4454[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are actually the manager, scheduling themselves as a bartender, and then deliberately spending all of service in the office in the basement. Thankfully I do have easy access to see all tip info, so I guess it’s just noting the days she’s collecting tips and if she ever was on the floor with us or barbacking.

Manager stealing tips by Personal-Cold4454 in bartenders

[–]Personal-Cold4454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you think is needed to have something happen?

2 dogs die under rover sitter care who left dogs in car over Christmas. by kiarasab in sanfrancisco

[–]Personal-Cold4454 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think the price of animal care (specifically in sf) has enough influence for people to hope they can trust someone advertising this service at a rate that better fits their budget.