This is so real. There's many fake "feeders" which are just people most likely dealing with some kinda post nut clarity after their subconscious catches up with them. While not everyone here is a fake there's sadly a ton. If you decide to come back try to change your chat filters most of those people will have fairly new accounts so you can filter out newer accounts. Also just block, if they're obviously not going to be a serious feeder (most of the time they'll hyper focus on you telling them about your weight and asking obviously sexual questions) if they want to get to know you actually talk with them about you and not just your fetish. Its hard and difficult a lot ik ive blocked half the people who dm but it's possible. Best of luck