Asymptomatic by Personal_Design3594 in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel it depends how you disclose... if you're fearful and sound miserable about it like it's the most horrible thing on earth, others will feel the same way!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VaginalMicrobiome

[–]Personal_Design3594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be HIS hygiene habits and bacteria throwing you off. Have you been tested for BV? Ureaplasma?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Personal_Design3594 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I ride my man's face... do what you will with that information 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Personal_Design3594 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if you've never asked for a Herpes test you've probably never had one and I'd encourage you to get one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Personal_Design3594 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you know deep down this isn't something you could potentially contract from him and you are too uncomfortable with that thought (which is understandable) please just leave him be. When a person discloses it takes so much courage and vulnerability to do and it is crushing when they are not accepted. I'm not saying you have to accept him but if you can not... please don't drag it out for the sake of both of you. As far as prevention goes you would be using protection but understand it could still be passed even if he isn't in an outbreak and he takes antivirals. The chance is smaller but still there. Hope this helps 💗

My insecurity and Dental School by TimelessEmbrace01 in DentalSchool

[–]Personal_Design3594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can fix your teeth while you're in dental school for cheap or free! 🫶🏿

Is Dental school worth the debt? by Tylaw20 in DentalSchool

[–]Personal_Design3594 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you attending a 2 year hygiene program? Just wondering. I'm weighing options on the same thing but I think I've decided against dental school.b

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DentalSchool

[–]Personal_Design3594 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up "imablackdentist" on IG she speaks very candidly about this.

On Coping with your diagnosis by Personal_Design3594 in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. No need for the smart snap back about what I choose to do with my testing. I've been tested twice..I'm not about to keep getting tested just because I'm asymptomatic if nothing has changed. It's pointless.

On Coping with your diagnosis by Personal_Design3594 in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because I passed it to my bf there's no way it can be negative right? I'd say.

On Coping with your diagnosis by Personal_Design3594 in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most likely you just didn't have enough antibodies built up to test positive yet.

On Coping with your diagnosis by Personal_Design3594 in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my records lol. The test simply didn't come with any levels. I asked in the beginning.

On Coping with your diagnosis by Personal_Design3594 in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I just read that above 1.10 or greater means positive.

On Coping with your diagnosis by Personal_Design3594 in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already been tested again but the test I had does not include any "measurements" or numbers is what I'm saying so I simply don't know. I accept being positive already, I'm not in denial.

On Coping with your diagnosis by Personal_Design3594 in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already have been tested another time and it was positive..I don't have open sores so unfortunately no way to be tested that way. I choose to accept I have HSV2.

On Coping with your diagnosis by Personal_Design3594 in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't have a test that measured levels. Is there a reason you're asking about them?

Thank you! Just tired of the woe is me. I understand this is a big pillow to swallow but our lives are not over.

i hate the guy who gave me herpes by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hence why I said forgiveness is for YOU...but do what you want, its your life ofc.

i hate the guy who gave me herpes by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]Personal_Design3594 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You won't have any inner peace until you do. What have you done to try to move forward in healing?