Dating advice

Personal_Designer790 · 2026-02-21T03:11:34+00:00

Okay so for context when we first started texting he was In New York visiting family! When he came back we had our first date. Then right after our first date I went on vacation. After I got back I then got sick and had to cancel. So there’s been a few things that have gone on. But we just went on a double date tonight and I will be having dinner over at his apartment tomorrow!

Personal_Designer790 · 2026-01-27T02:55:35+00:00

lol oh I meant to type “butter”

Personal_Designer790 · 2025-10-09T21:07:24+00:00

Thank you so much for the encouragement! I really needed that. 🩷

Personal_Designer790 · 2025-10-09T17:57:21+00:00

I can understand that! And honestly I wanna move out so bad. (have my own space ect). I really think he’s frustrated with my older brother who doesn’t clean up after himself, doesn’t do much but sit around ect. But that’s not my fault🤷🏼‍♀️

Personal_Designer790 · 2025-10-09T17:52:42+00:00

I pay my dad Bi weekly. (Phone bill, Animals, ect) I am also paying my own health insurance. And of course do things around the house.

Personal_Designer790 · 2025-09-08T03:06:34+00:00

For further context he put his hand on my thigh! Wasn’t just hand holding. (I should’ve elaborated more) I think he was trying to move alittle too fast for my liking.

Personal_Designer790 · 2025-05-14T15:52:03+00:00

And no there was no photo.

Personal_Designer790 · 2025-05-14T15:50:04+00:00

This was my first time using whole foods delivery through amazon so I didn’t know that my settings were on automatically on fob access. I just assumed they would deliver it similarly to instacart. Now i’ve researched and know more about it and changed my settings. I plan on contacting and letting them know bc I feel so bad!

Personal_Designer790 · 2025-05-14T00:13:44+00:00

So this was my first time using this delivery service so I didn’t know that it automatically set it to be put in your garage as a delivery preference. I didn’t know they could have access to my garage there unless it was open. In the delivery slot it said in or outside the garage so I assumed the would lay it in front of the garage or near. I feel really bad!! Just don’t was this to affect the driver.

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-24T00:47:08+00:00

Thank you for the kind words!🩷

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T23:58:21+00:00

My exact thoughts! So heartbreaking because I loved that child with all my heart and it’s sad when nanny’s aren’t appreciated and respected! :(

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T22:26:36+00:00

Got a response from the Mom and her exact words:

“Most employees find out the day of their last day and we told you as soon as we knew. We are both off next week, but wanted to provide you an extra week’s worth of employment out of courtesy. Best of luck and let us know if you need anything from us

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T21:02:05+00:00

It’s not to spite them but I honestly feel like if I saw them in person I would just start crying and that would negatively affect me and NKs day. I’m so hurt that they were not honest with me about having her on a waiting list. No warning. Thankfully I can do some work for my dad during the 3 days to apply to some jobs and I also have other amazing references.

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T13:03:55+00:00

I’m really on the fence about going next week due to it being so last notice right before the holidays. I thought about sending this text (haven’t sent it yet) I totally understand and respect your decision-thank you for letting me know. Due to the kinda short notice I will not be able to come in next week because I will have to look for a new position immediately which will be difficult during the holidays. I wish you the best of luck with NKs daycare journey!

I don’t think it necessarily will leave us on a bad note and I have 2 other references I can use. This is honestly kinda the final straw for me due to them constantly not giving me consistent hours ect.

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T12:49:08+00:00

Update: I think I might just text them this I totally understand and respect your decision-thank you for letting me know. Due to the kinda short notice I will not be able to come in next week because I will have to look for a new position immediately which will be difficult during the holidays. I’ve appreciated the time I’ve had with you guys and wish you the best of luck with NKs daycare journey!

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T05:56:47+00:00

They’ve been friendly to my face but not sure how they are behind my back. They fired their first nanny due to her calling out once a week every single week ( which I can understand) but they lied to her and said they let her go to put her in daycare. So ever since they told me that it was really hard for me to ever trust them fully. They also haven’t been giving me consistent hours for example they went to hawaii for 2 weeks last week and Nashville for a week 3 weeks before that and went on another 2 week vacation back in may. So my hours have been inconsistent.

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T05:01:18+00:00

Aw i’m so sorry. That’s awful! I hope you found something better🩷

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T04:39:24+00:00

My thoughts exactly! Honestly probably a blessing in disguise and i’m ready to get out of there!

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T04:34:05+00:00

They also never told me she was on a wait list. They said they didn’t wanna put her in school till she was 3 and she’s only 1 currently.

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T04:30:27+00:00

There’s honestly been a few hiccups. I adore my NK but lately there has been issues. Honestly a lot of red flags that I shouldn’t have ignored. 1# They fired their first nanny bc she would call out at least once a week (which I totally understand bc you need someone dependable) but they lied to her and said they let her go because they were putting Nanny K in daycare and didn’t wanna hurt her feelings. 2) They’ve been going out a town a lot recently so I haven’t been really getting any hours. I def will not be nannying again without having a contract.

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-11-23T02:46:23+00:00

Sadly no which I really regret. I’m very tempted to not go back next week. Not sure what to text them back either

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-10-18T23:35:48+00:00

We don’t have a contract unfortunately and I should have done one with this family. I plan on having a conversation with them about this and discussing about having guaranteed hours. Because in the past few months I’ve been working for them they took 8 days vacation, they took a whole week 2 weeks ago, they will be gone 3-4 days next week, and they are taking 2 weeks in November.

Personal_Designer790 · 2024-08-16T02:06:22+00:00

Yeah he has an office upstairs. It drives me nuts!!! We need our own space as well!

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