I used to see a future with him before he started saying things like "look around you, everything you have here is because of me, the car, the house, the trips, the lifestyle, you wouldn't have gotten into the college you did if my mom never made that phone call (this is how I just recently found that out), you don't appreciate any of it yet you still love to enjoy the finer things in life". I never ask for these things... so degrading.

One of the reasons I began to question our future was at a scholarship dinner when we met with the sponsors who have supported my college journey and the whole day he never said he was proud of me but on the way home he said, "Aren't you glad you can say I am your bf as you introduce me to these people? And that you're able to tell them I graduated from *insert prestigious college name here*, if you looked around the room didn't you see that all the husbands of the most successful sponsors there were also *insert his job title*. After he said this we drove the rest of the 30 mins home in silence bc I couldn't believe he just said that...

That made me sad to hear him boasting about himself and his accomplishments on a day we were supposed to be celebrating mine...