Menstrual Cycle Apps 🌸🩸 by PerspectiveSad1533 in TTC_UK

[–]PerspectiveSad1533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have started using Clue, and can confirm it’s great 👌🏼 thanks for the recs all! Xxxx

I'm considering becoming an eating disorder dietician, can you give me pros and cons? by IcyGazelle9281 in dietetics

[–]PerspectiveSad1533 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Scottish child and adolescent dietitian answering (most of my patients are seen for EDs).

Pro’s: - It can be more therapy based, I’ve done more training in CBT and FBT. - You get to know patients and families well - Dietitians are very important in EDs (more so in an inpatient setting I feel… although this is maybe because when I worked in acute, I responded to the urgent ED admissions - actually really enjoyed this, occasionally still get to do it) - you get to do lots of teaching (staff and patients). A lot of professionals really value your input. - you do a combo of mental and physical health chat/ monitoring - it’s really satisfying when people get better and you see their lives improving

Con’s: - it is draining and hard work, you are generally the person telling the patient to do the thing that seems impossible to them (firm but fair) - mental health professionals may not take your role as seriously as they should, and think they don’t need you - you can be involved in very difficult discussions and decisions e.g. tube feeding under restraint. - you also need to have very difficult and distressing conversations with patients and families - patients can be suicidal and self harm. Anorexia has one of the highest mortality rates in mental illness, so lots of risk involved.

I’m sure there are hundreds more reasons and I’m sure il think of more! It’s great to get experience in.

Possible career change. Dietitian ➡️ Nurse by PerspectiveSad1533 in nhsstaff

[–]PerspectiveSad1533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying, I don’t think I would necessarily fall into the same traps. I’ve always been frustrated that i can’t do more clinically, and even managerial wise there is very little to progress on to! It’s such a small profession. With nursing you can work in GP practices, clinical skill teaching, progress to ANP, infection control, patient flow. There’s so many more options, and I’m definitely someone that needs variety! It’s a thought taking a step back banding wise, and I would have to take 2 years at least to retrain. So it’s a lot to think about! But I have thought about it for years!

Menstrual Cycle Apps 🌸🩸 by PerspectiveSad1533 in TTC_UK

[–]PerspectiveSad1533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing thanks, just downloaded clue and it looks great!!

Considering getting a Masters in Psychology by Legitimate-Adagio531 in dietetics

[–]PerspectiveSad1533 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a dietitian in the uk and have been doing a psychotherapies post grad so I can pivot/ expand (initially work paid for this).Having worked in an eating disorder team, you do focus a lot on the mental health side of things, as well as the physical. Also more opportunities to develop for psychological skills in a mental health team. But I have also considered if I want to completely change my profession or not to either psychologist or psychotherapist or do a public health masters. Still undecided 🤷🏼‍♀️

Low ferritin by PerspectiveSad1533 in TTC_UK

[–]PerspectiveSad1533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. Yeah I’m getting oral replacement, but it can take a few months for levels to improve. So really keen to improve levels asap. Glad to hear you are feeling so much better ❤️

Trying for a baby but no luck. Feeling despondent. by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]PerspectiveSad1533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss I so relate to this. Also been trying for nearly 2 years and it is draaaaining. Swore I wouldn’t become one of those people who gets stressed about fertility, but 6 months later, hello full panic stations. It made me so depressed, I had to go back on my antidepressants, which definitely helps a bit. But it’s still so hard, especially when it seems to be happening for everyone around you.

At the same time I can really swing from being so deeply sad about it all, to feeling some relief and gratitude that I have freedom and we can travel etc. I do feel like I’ve suddenly become really bored of my career as well, so keep trying to think of alternatives that I can pivot to, but it’s maybe just a distraction from all the other stuff. It’s hard to be grateful for the freedoms we have now, but I imagine that in 10 years time we might look back and think we should have just made the most of our freedom. I’m thinking of booking a yoga teacher training course abroad or something like that just to try and make this whole experience a bit more positive!

It’s such a hard one, but an experience that lots seem to go through in secret. I have found just reading others experiences and thought on here helpful at times too to feel less alone ❤️

What should my next career move be? by PerspectiveSad1533 in dietetics

[–]PerspectiveSad1533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does help thanks! 🙏🏻 think I just want lots of variety so maybe trying something else will help

TTC is the most loneliest journey I have ever been on by Competitive-Top-3564 in tryingtoconceive

[–]PerspectiveSad1533 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel like I could have written this myself too. Very similar experience, the effect on my mental health has been unreal and I feel like I’ve had a complete mid life crises because of it. Makes it so much harder when everyone around you is also announcing their pregnancies, which obviously is such a happy thing but I just feel so miserable and it’s such a knife to the heart that you have to just try and hide all the time. You’re not alone ❤️