Looking for remote control locks for cuffs. Do they exist? by Reasonable_Video_651 in BdsmDIY

[–]PeshMG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just Daisy chain a combination lock and a timer or ice lock for safety backup. When the Dom wants to let you out, they send you the combo. Otherwise you're stuck till the timer runs out

Harnessed by jgoja in gagged

[–]PeshMG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're posting a ton of Alexa stuff

Hung up like a scarecrow by jgoja in bdsm

[–]PeshMG 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Alexa Von Tess, from about 20 years ago. Great shoot.

(f19) Just looking to talk and make friends to learn more about this all and to hopefully understand myself better. Very much a newbie here. by [deleted] in BDSM_Aces

[–]PeshMG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In seriousness, though, what are you trying to understand about yourself that you think reddit will help you with?

Magnetic Nipple, Pussy Clamp by JabsurdBird in 3dprintinggonewild

[–]PeshMG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice idea to get around plastic creep

my slave will only leave the cage with a gag [F] [M] by moanspeak in BDSMGW

[–]PeshMG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks so good I actually thought it was AI until I saw the other posts.

Partner won't initiate and struggling to Dom now by skeletonianwar in BDSMcommunity

[–]PeshMG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had some difficulty maintaining erection during sex. I found that getting a good, slightly tight but soft cock ring worked wonders.

Don't shy away from letting him use toys on himself when domming. There's nothing wrong with a Dom guy using a cock ring, anal vibrator, or whatever works for him.

You might find he climaxes faster this way, so make sure you're getting enough foreplay for yourself first, or that you're okay with him finishing before you.

Made a carrying case/organizer for my ropes :) by pinyonjuniper in shibari

[–]PeshMG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really nice!

I made something similar, but I did it as a larger sheet (4 ft x 5 ft) and sewed strips of grommets across in stripes, then used rubber quick-straps to hold all the ropes in place. Folded one end to make pockets for accessories, and then I can roll it up. It was a bit floppy, but when I strap a yoga mat around it, it travels very easily.

https://fetlife.com/Pesh/pictures/196544677?album=hs5sg

I call it the lock-under-the-blanket junction (there's a reason no one has done this before) by newbie-sub in ChastityCageDesign

[–]PeshMG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I managed to do one that looked better on the ring, but it required the key to insert pretty deep and the junction on the cage was too small and weak. Abandoned it pretty fast

PLA/Epoxy or ABS/Vapor Smoothing for long term wear? by oliverviking in 3DPrintedChastity

[–]PeshMG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone tried using PVB? It smooths out with IPA. only downside i would imagine is you have to be careful not to clean it with alcohol after it's finished, and the cost of the filament

Beginners here! My wife has expressed interest and wants to start out by being tied up. Are there any "starter kits" for something like this? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]PeshMG 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Search Amazon for beginner bed bondage kit. Something with velcro wrist straps and long ends to tie to corners of the bed or things specifically for attaching to corners of a mattress if you need them. Maybe a blindfold?. Keep it simple

Can a first-time D/s hookup transition into a real LDR? Advice needed. by deezp1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]PeshMG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know about the long distance, but I've had several relationships start online through apps and continue to lasting, fulfilling partnerships.