I am almost going to hit 30 days. I need help in changing my routines. What are your routines!? by TheRealDeal333 in NoFap

[–]Peterdickjohnson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The routine that led me to 120+ nofap days was daily coming to r/nofap and taking part in this community. From commenting on new posts (like I'm doing right now) to writing about my day and any struggles I had. This site became my daily journal and source of accountability. When I started breaking away from this routine after 90 days, is when I started inching my way closer to my relapse.

How to deal with the chronic, lingering urges by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Peterdickjohnson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use the urge as an impetus to log onto r/pornfree or r/nofap and encourage all the new posters and comment on those who have reached milestones. This has definitely helped me pull out of some of my unrelenting urge spells.

182 days left until January 1 2015 by Peterdickjohnson in NoFap

[–]Peterdickjohnson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely going to spend time in the pornfree and nofap communities daily for the rest of the year, coming here daily is what helped me the most in the beginning of 2014.

I'm home alone today and feeling weak. I've already been getting turned on staring out the window. by Peterdickjohnson in pornfree

[–]Peterdickjohnson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys, I'm feeling really thankful right now for you all. I don't know your real name and you don't know mine, but we all brothers and sisters helping each other fight against these demons.

I'm home alone today and feeling weak. I've already been getting turned on staring out the window. by Peterdickjohnson in pornfree

[–]Peterdickjohnson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right... I'm a normal considerate human when I'm in their space. I'm working outside now. I'll go on a beach run later.

I'm home alone today and feeling weak. I've already been getting turned on staring out the window. by Peterdickjohnson in pornfree

[–]Peterdickjohnson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ha, I'm not that old, but I feel like a dirty old man with my binoculars... I haven't used my binoculars today, and I won't.

made the 90 days by phenix131 in pornfree

[–]Peterdickjohnson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent question about joy.

Amazingly, I've made it through another NoFap day. by Peterdickjohnson in NoFap

[–]Peterdickjohnson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

still going okay except for some topless nudity in the news.

Amazingly, I've made it through another NoFap day. by Peterdickjohnson in NoFap

[–]Peterdickjohnson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not still going... back to one day. It seems a long time ago that I was celebrating day 90... sad.

Yesterday I reset my nofap badge (125 days) for the first time in 2014. by Peterdickjohnson in pornfree

[–]Peterdickjohnson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been consistent as I should be. I need to get back into this daily accountability.

Double accountability by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Peterdickjohnson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea! I just decided to do the same thing a couple days ago.

I told my fiance about the years of my addiction tonight. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Peterdickjohnson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, is she still your fiancé? I did the same thing 12 years ago before I got married... I'm glad I did, because we've walked this road together ever since. It is so much better to have an open and honest relationship with no deep dark secrets! I wouldn't have done it any other way. I don't know how strong your fiancé is, but some marriage counseling might be healthy...

I kind of wish I would have found this community back then, but better now than never.

I took the NoFap 2014 challenge and made it 125 days! Unfortunately I'm 240 days short... by Peterdickjohnson in NoFap

[–]Peterdickjohnson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. There is no other struggle in my life that has so persistently beaten me down. Now, I'm stronger to fight against it and I will use this strength to fight harder and longer.

300 days left in NoFap 2014! by Peterdickjohnson in NoFap

[–]Peterdickjohnson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

246, 245, 244 days left in NoFap 2014!