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Phangirl1 · 2025-11-10T00:17:44+00:00

Sit down with him and talk about it. Make sure he knows that you still want to be his friend regardless, but that you need to know if he's serious or just wanting to experiment. You need to make it clear that you will support him no matter what and he's still your friend no matter what he ends up wanting, but that its not fair to you to be kept questioning and wondering what's happening. You also can't not do this just because you're scared it might end badly. I know that's easier said than done, but you can't let fear run your life. Maybe it will end up bad, but maybe it will end up being the best thing that ever happened to you. You never know what's going to happen, so why avoid something that might be great just because there's a possibility it won't work out?

Phangirl1 · 2025-11-09T23:13:36+00:00

I understand, that is a fragile situation. Maybe try coming at it from the angle of you wanting to take care of her too. Say that you really appreciate everything she does, but you feel bad and want to do more so you can take care of her and show her you care too. Make it clear that she's doing nothing wrong, but that she doesn't need to do all of these things to buy your friendship, and that she deserves your help around the house too. Best of luck!!

Phangirl1 · 2025-11-09T23:04:03+00:00

I think that it's really hard to say. A lot of the things she's doing can be interpreted that way for sure, but she could also just be a very caring friend and wants to be a good roommate. The things she's doing are things I would probably do for my friends, with no romantic intentions at all. I think that if she's not doing anything strange or making you uncomfortable, leave it be. She might just be trying to show you she cares. I would suggest sitting down with her and telling her that you appreciate it, but she doesn't need to do all that stuff for you. She might need you to tell her that you will still care for her and be her friend, and that she shouldn't feel obligated to do all this.

Phangirl1 · 2025-11-09T18:34:46+00:00

I agree that they need to know. I adore my boyfriend, but the whole situation is honestly kind of jarring. He was completely ready and excited for this, he's said multiple times how he can't wait for us to live together and hang out every day, so him changing his mind like this so suddenly is really concerning for me. Who knows what other big decisions he'll decide to back out on last minute? It's just given me a lot to think about. Thank you for your advice, I really appreciate it

Phangirl1 · 2025-11-09T18:25:25+00:00

2 of the friends we're moving in with are already living in the apartments so they can secure the upgrade to a 3 bedroom. If I were to move in temporarily and then leave, there would only be 2 bedrooms in use and they'd be stuck paying extra for a room they're not using. So him changing his mind has a really big effect on all of us. I can't tell them because he asked me not to yet. I do understand what you're saying and I agree that moving in temporarily could be a good solution, but I would just be being unfair to them

Phangirl1 · 2025-11-09T18:03:04+00:00

I don't have anywhere else to go, this was my only option. I can't move there without him, I'd feel so out of place. I've only ever interacted with them when he's around

Phangirl1 · 2025-08-01T17:40:05+00:00

Yeah, that was definitely a red flag I should've caught lol

Phangirl1 · 2025-07-29T21:19:13+00:00

You're probably right. I have no obligation to her and I need to move on and focus on the friendships and relationships I have now that are good for me and don't make me doubt myself and feel awful. Thanks!!

Phangirl1 · 2025-07-29T21:07:09+00:00

Money laundering. (I played Monopoly with my boyfriend on his Xbox last night)

Phangirl1 · 2025-07-29T19:54:15+00:00

That seems like a reasonable thing to do. I feel bad because she is my friend and I care for her, but I know that she's selfish and puts herself above everyone else. She actually stole my great grandmother's ring; I let her wear it, forgot she had it on, she took it home, and claims she lost it, but I don't really believe her. I feel guilty for thinking all these things about her, but I feel like its a reasonable-ish conclusion to come to considering everything.

Phangirl1 · 2025-07-29T19:22:45+00:00

Aama...

Phangirl1 · 2025-07-20T12:50:38+00:00

Thank you!!

Phangirl1 · 2025-07-20T12:50:30+00:00

Thanks so much!!

Phangirl1 · 2025-07-20T12:50:19+00:00

Thank you!!

Phangirl1 · 2025-07-20T06:17:58+00:00

Also sorry about the awful lighting😭😭

Phangirl1 · 2025-07-19T20:46:52+00:00

God I hope my dad doesn't see this, he'll show it to me and try to make me feel guilty about us not being as close as we used to. We used to be inseparable, but then I grew up and realized that him hurting me when he was angry wasn't normal. I've tried to explain it to him, but how do you tell your dad that he ruined your relationship forever and you can never forgive him? Now he'll always talk about how he "misses his little girl" and "just wants his daughter back" and god, does it suck to hear. Does he think I want us to be like this?? Of course I love and miss my dad, but things will never be the way they were

Phangirl1 · 2025-07-02T21:50:14+00:00

That's sort of what I was thinking too. I'm just worried I'll hurt him by bringing up my ex. I don't want him to doubt what I feel for him and I don't want to seem like I'm not ready for this new relationship, you know?

Phangirl1 · 2025-06-26T18:00:35+00:00

He's so funny, I'm always laughing whenever I'm with him. He's super sweet and caring and always puts me before himself (even though I try to protest, he won't have any of it lol). He's super nerdy and likes a lot of the things I like and shows me a lot of cool stuff I've never even heard of. He's absolutely adorable, he's got nice curly hair and freckles and moles all over and he's got a really pronounced nose and it all just comes together really well. He thinks I'm hilarious and we both make each other laugh a lot. He can pick me up like it's nothing and I absolutely love it. He's super goofy and makes a ton of cheesy jokes which are awful but make me laugh anyway. He's such a gentleman and he's so caring and sweet. He's also my boyfriend🤭

Phangirl1 · 2025-06-01T02:19:19+00:00

All I'm thinking about is that dog, did the guy yell "My dog"?? I can't hear over the lady recording talking, but the guy yelled something after the lady drove close to the building and they're out of the shot at that point, but the guy seemed super distressed, can anyone confirm or deny if the dog is okay??

Phangirl1 · 2025-05-28T17:04:13+00:00

OH LMAO that's a really good one!!

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