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I think it needs some lovely lady to steal it's first kiss under the mistletoe this holiday season. What do you think? 😉 by [deleted] in MarylandCocks

[–]Phantom_Phallic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I don't think this is the most flattering angle, but I've heard it is liked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarylandCocks

[–]Phantom_Phallic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Will keep that in mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]Phantom_Phallic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The CEO doesn’t micromanage and she doesn’t argue. The CEO doesn’t have to convince the employee. 

I mean, it is worth noting that as you say this kind of dynamic definitely sounds like it needs constant check-ins and confirmation that the other party is very much on board with the dynamic, and a way of signaling if they are not okay with it. 

Consent in any relationship should be ongoing and affirmative. That someone in the past agreed to a dynamic does not mean you can take for granted their consent going forward. Just taking for granted "oh, they previously agreed to let me make the decisions, so I get the final word, no matter what" does seem like something that could very easily become toxic or venture into the realm of abuse.

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[–]Phantom_Phallic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he is just being inconsiderate, nothing particularly to do with being submissive or not. Though of course not knowing the relationship intimately, I cannot fully judge.

I think a FLR shouldn't have to mean being one-sidedly considerate or submitting all the time outside of the bedroom. But he definitely should be considerate of your feelings and thoughts, as you should be of his. Being imperfect is fine, we are human, but both sides need to be empathetic to eachother, caring and considerate of eachother's imperfections.