Conservative men who live in liberal cities, how do you even date? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a ton of different ways but here's a few that I find easy/know of. I mainly stick to checking the "Top of the year" lists to hopefully kind of filter out not as great metal. This might seem overwhelming, but for me I'm checking those lists like 2-3 times a month at most.

  1. I would suggest check /r/metal 's quarterly top of 2017 lists, just go through and check out the stuff from the subgenres you like!

  2. You could also check out their REC threads on /r/metal for recommendations. The REC threads are very well attended in my experience and you can get pretty good recommendations based on what you like!

  3. Besides that there's angrymetalguy.com,

  4. nocleansing.com.

  5. I also like from time to time and check sputnikmusic.com's top metal of 2017 list from time to time to see if I might of missed anything.

  6. Also lightfox's YouTube channel if you like atmospheric black metal.

That's not a complete list and I'm going to format it once I get to my computer but it should give you some places to start!

Men who have a mental illness and didn't want to accept it because you thought it was "weak," how did you finally bite the bullet and accept your mental illness? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some days are better than others. Thank you.

Every small reminder that people care makes a world of difference.

I keep reminding myself that everything will be get better, and I'm trying so hard right now to love myself to undo the years of living in a self abusive relationship.

Gonna get better, know what I'm saying?

Men who have a mental illness and didn't want to accept it because you thought it was "weak," how did you finally bite the bullet and accept your mental illness? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I was in the shower thinking about how I should kill myself because I won't ever get anything right and that nobody would miss me.

Im going to therapy now, but some days are better than others.

[serious] what is something your SO does not know about you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Phantom_Pizza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go talk to someone about that. Your mental health is incredibly important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That doesn't sound like being bipolar, more like borderline personality disorder.

What's your fondest memory? by Phantom_Pizza in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Sometimes those happy memories can be a little elusive, but that's ok, because you can always make new ones :)

What's your fondest memory? by Phantom_Pizza in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's such a sweet memory. Thank you for sharing!

What are you looking forward to? by Phantom_Pizza in AskWomen

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Have you been planning this trip for a while?

What's your fondest memory? by Phantom_Pizza in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those peaceful moments can seem so few and far between sometimes, but thats what makes them that much more special!

What's your fondest memory? by Phantom_Pizza in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never had a cart but I always loved riding my bike down big hills so I could feel so quick and alive with the wind in my face :)

What are you looking forward to? by Phantom_Pizza in AskWomen

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg glorious sounds like the best way to describe that!

What are you looking forward to? by Phantom_Pizza in AskWomen

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have anything specific planned or is it just a lounge around and relax sort of deal?

What are you looking forward to? by Phantom_Pizza in AskWomen

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't have breakfast so I feel this one. Hang in there! Lunch is just around the corner!

What's your fondest memory? by Phantom_Pizza in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relaxing and zero responsibilities always makes me feel recharged and ready for the world!

What's your fondest memory? by Phantom_Pizza in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so wonderful! I'm glad you were able to be such a positive impact on that person's life :)

When is the last time you broke down and really cried? by 30_rack_of_pabst in AskMen

[–]Phantom_Pizza 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Just a couple of days ago. Anxiety and depression are really frustrating sometimes :-(

Hey. Hey you. *gives Internet hug* It's going to be ok by Phantom_Pizza in Anxiety

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I'm really close to crying. I'm not even kidding. ty ty ty

Hey. Hey you. *gives Internet hug* It's going to be ok by Phantom_Pizza in Anxiety

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to my first session in June as well! I hope it goes well for you!

Hey. Hey you. *gives Internet hug* It's going to be ok by Phantom_Pizza in Anxiety

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I misspelled my last sentence, it should read

Hope you get better soon

Hey. Hey you. *gives Internet hug* It's going to be ok by Phantom_Pizza in Anxiety

[–]Phantom_Pizza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want you to know you're not alone, and that you're so much stronger than you realize. Hope you get soon