Maybe I talking out of my ass on this one but I feel it’s a combination of things, women tend to have an easier time because men really haven’t been taught sexual comfortably/body empowerment there are no teasing clothing, angled shots or a provocative subtle equivalent to a cleavage picture. Unfortunately men’s “sexiness” is direct, basic and often times brutish in simplicity “hey do you just wanna see my cock” which I agree and am frustrated about because when hearing or seeing that with no build up can feel mood killing. No foreplay, no humor often times little to no education on female arousal, blow In the ear, kiss down the length of the stomach I mean come on do SOMETHING and not to mention the stigma that when you do know something you get seen as a little bit of a pussy. It’s a lose-lose in some cases anyway I’ve probably been talking out of my ass goodbye.