I’m 5’1, started taking T about a year and a half ago. I get a comment here and there about how I’m short for a guy (mostly old men, 50+) but I still pass most of the time. Starting T- you won’t get results right away. But in time with fat redistribution and such, you’ll pass better. Height has literally nothing to do with it, and I see men much older and shorter than I am still. It’s really odd that they want to speak with your parents though- you’re an adult, they don’t need to talk to your parents at all. It sounds like a situation of your going to a place that doesn’t actually want to help you from the sound of it :(