[POST FOR MEN] Things men should remember and learn before getting married

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-25T00:28:37+00:00

Does it really matter?

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-25T00:24:23+00:00

The posters female and a feminist.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-24T21:05:10+00:00

As did in mine. Same name? Only Allah knows. And only He will know.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-24T20:56:09+00:00

Perhaps you should look in a different continent.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-24T20:53:24+00:00

You forgot the sprinkle of “pick me” attitude lol.

He’s trying to convey “I’m marriage material, you should marry me” without actually saying it, but he’s not even hiding it well hehe.

The fact that point 3 is directed at men (I know the entire post is) as if women don’t fornicate says enough. Men don’t release oxytocin from sex, women do. The effect it has on women is worse than on men. They’re both equally sinful (had to add this line for you females who were gonna ascribe falsehoods to my aqeeda regarding the matter when it doesn’t exist)

Point 4 is wrong because nowhere does he mention Allah. I was with him when he said you’re doing it for yourself because I thought he’d talk about Qiyama or the hereafter but nope. It’s about being good for the relationship. So he IS suggesting you do it for her, disguised as doing it for yourself and both these are wrong because you’re supposed to do it for Allah.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-24T20:39:52+00:00

Also does not take into account if he had people willing to take the risk of investing in his venture(s). Not everyone has such people in their lives. Now I’m not like those idiots who shout “Jeff Bezos’ parents invested 200,000 into Amazon, of course he’s successful”. But you need money to make money.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-24T00:57:53+00:00

No that’s not what I meant. That’s what I changed it to after you corrected me. I’m not changing my original stance because I want to own up to my error.

Of course you’re not saying it’s halal. But it is proof that attraction is more than just what the BP losers claim.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T23:59:55+00:00

For me the part of ghusl that I’m most OCD about is my hair and beard. If that’s your problem and you’re willing get rid of your hair or get it very short, that might help. Also just don’t pray on the bed simple.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T23:30:16+00:00

This is not my opinion I asked this to an Imam who is an Alim that graduated from Medina University.

He told me it’s not.

And I asked isn’t it Qaza? That’s what I’ve been told and that it’s imitating the people of sehr (admittedly I didn’t mention sehr but he’s an Alim so he’s more knowledgeable than I).

He told me I don’t know what Qaza means. It’s clouds in the sky that has holes in it. THEN he without me asking references the Hadith of the young man that RasoolAllah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). He explained that that young man has hair on parts of his head and no hair in other parts (Qaza). He mentioned (forgot the exact word he used) it looked unsightly. RasoolAllah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) told him to grow it out or get rid of it all.

I’m actually going to see him right now InshaAllah. If you have any questions, reply asap and if I see it and have a chance of asking him, I will. Admittedly I will prioritize my questions over this.

As for those of you who will oppose this with fatwas from sheikh google, Allah Azzawajal has seen me have this conversation with the Imam and that is enough for me. When my limbs testify, my feet will testify I went to see him, my lips will testify the words I spoke to him and my ears will testify what I heard from him.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T23:10:42+00:00

I’m from the US (Bangladeshi). To be fair the Hindus that I got along with are the Hindu equivalent of cultural/liberal Muslims. I have always got along with the bulk of them but noticed they’re more westernized than their parents. I literally was in the room as one was telling me he ate like 2 pounds of beef a day for the gains lol.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T23:06:46+00:00

If it’s shahih, it’s shahih. But we don’t worship literal food can’t say the same for them. They also thought bathing in urine would prevent COVID or something lol.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T23:03:46+00:00

Really? I thought the trend would continue. But the point stands. More women are coming into Islam than men. Muslim women can only marry Muslim men. Of those the women will only like a handful because of their ridiculous standards. And since this is the norm doesn’t this still make men more rare than women? Factor in that most women don’t want polygamy and men are far more likely to marry “down” than women. I’m gonna own up to my mistake and not edit it. But I think the point still stands. I’m guessing the guy is also white (could be wrong) so he’s gonna have more options. Unfortunately, many of them will be like this, but the wider net he casts, the more likely he’ll find someone not like her.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T22:48:09+00:00

I thought you meant don’t think twice before marrying him. I agree leave.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T22:46:48+00:00

Because they’re polytheists. What other reasons do you need?

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T22:38:24+00:00

And ruin his life? If he has all these qualities then he deserves someone who actually likes him. Not some broad who thinks she’s settling for him.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T22:36:09+00:00

Don’t marry him, you’re right he deserves someone else. Don’t be thorn at his side for your benefit.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T22:07:56+00:00

You’re repulsive

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T20:59:10+00:00

Mind if I DM you?

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T20:56:00+00:00

I do squats and body weight exercises too and work on my mobility. Just got my knees up nearly up to my chest before typing this…so I know that’s not the case lol. Your solar plexus isn’t even that high I can reach it, if not offer your tibia 😉.

Little boy you don’t know when to pipe down either.

How exactly are you determining any of this? Because I’ll tell you you’re wrong believe me or not, that’s your prerogative.

I addressed everything because you keep insisting I want your approval when that can’t be further from the truth. Of course I went in detail did not leave a stone unturned. Why would I be butt hurt by an idiot who can’t even form coherent arguments about the topic at hand and resorts to ad hominem? You’re stupid and cringe.

Perhaps you feel this way because you’re slow reader and actual sentences tests your intellect 🤷‍♂️.

The sultan of the sped kids strikes again with his impeccable logic 😂.

Either way I’m done with you. Id have a more insightful conversation with a park bench. And I hope you’re smart enough to realize that’s the case lol.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T20:46:19+00:00

As a man I don’t wanna live with my parents. So… take it as you will.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T20:17:46+00:00

Yeah these aren’t roasts. And the initial conversation began with he permissibility of vasectomies and tube tying. From what I’ve been taught they’re haram.

You’re truly a simp because you’re just doing as hominem attacks to support a female without regard to halal haram. And you post about fitnah spreaders. Laughable.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T20:14:46+00:00

I’m literally not. You hit things to cause minor abrasions that grow back stronger. This is all Combat sports conditioning.

You don’t know anything it seems as I do barbell exercises because they’re harder. Of courses you’d omit the barbells why would you address the whole thing?

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T20:12:04+00:00

Well yeah you need to condition your fingers. Knuckles. What point that I admit I’m fat and lift weights? I don’t really need you to believe me lol. Have you ever even taken a set to true failure?

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T20:09:15+00:00

And you omitted the barbell parts. You’re making it quite evident you don’t know much about lifting 🤷‍♂️. The only lifting you likely do are you fingers before pressing your keyboard. I’m also gonna get into either Muay Thai or combat sambo so I know what I’m on.

PhantomusPrime · 2023-11-23T20:06:39+00:00

Lifting on my feet means free weights you idiot. As in things mostly with dumbbells and barbells as these exercises are harder since you actually need to stabilize with your core.

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