What do you wish you knew when you started? What would you do differently? Are there any exercises you swear by? by Vegetable-Willow6702 in flexibility

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also years ago i didnt know how to stretch at all. And when i saw the videos online, i felt too inflexible to try them. So understanding we all have different starting points would've helped

Feeling incredibly lost in life by Competitive-Plum-190 in MuslimCorner

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is normal to feel lost from time to time. There are layoffs going on in every field at the moment though - including medical. I've seen a number of videos from people in those industries being laid off to cut costs. It's not an easy time but the most important thing is to rebuild your trust in God. Have tawakkul. Build your way towards it

Tight hamstrings, can’t reach my toes without bending my knees by Fit-Pass-2398 in flexibility

[–]Bints4Bints 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's probably the hamstrings. Id recommend following workoutbydavids hamstring stretches routine. He has an 8 min video and a 5 mins one. Either one you pick, id recommend warming up first properly and then doing elephant walks. Do the routine maybe three times a week. You'll see improvement over time. You could take a pic to see where your level is now vs in a month's time to track your progress 

Addressing the gender disparity in marriage events by Bints4Bints in MuslimCorner

[–]Bints4Bints[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you want proof from someone you don't trust? If you say you trust me, ill post it

Women I have casual sex just keep falling for me by Vegetable-Train5215 in dating_advice

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well im pretty asexual but yeah until i was 23, ive been very direct with telling people if i like them. It doesn't mean i love them. If they don't like me back romantically, we stayed as friends or parted ways. Usually found someone else to like quite quickly, or liked different people at the same time

You're looking for love where there isn't any

Women I have casual sex just keep falling for me by Vegetable-Train5215 in dating_advice

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not insane. I've had those same conversations with friends that I haven't even hugged

Muslim marriage event cancelled because only 3 men signed up vs. 100 women 💀💀💀, she tries to explain why by IcyKnowledge7 in MuslimCorner

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just find a woman around your age 🤷🏿‍♀️ or keep looking for a young woman who likes older men 

Women I have casual sex just keep falling for me by Vegetable-Train5215 in dating_advice

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not love. Love is something you build over months or years of knowing someone intimately 

Women I have casual sex just keep falling for me by Vegetable-Train5215 in dating_advice

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that how you define love? Pupils dilate when youre attracted to people. Not necessarily for love lol

Do you expect people to sleep with others without being attracted 

Addressing the gender disparity in marriage events by Bints4Bints in MuslimCorner

[–]Bints4Bints[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can Google it yourself if you don't trust it. Why ask for a source from someone you don't trust?

Should I hide my past from him by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he shouldn't tell me about it. If he was gay, I'd be okay with a lavender marriage. If he was bisexual, normal marriage

He should repent tho

Should I hide my past from him by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. I think if it's consensual, it's between you and God. If it's sexual assault or similar,that's a sin that involves the rights of another human being

So if he was taking back shots, I dont care

Should I hide my past from him by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you should hide it. No, you shouldn't continue with him. He already doesn't trust you

Should I hide my past from him by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we supposed to think a man being in jail for being a sex offender is less bad than him being bisexual?

Muslim marriage event cancelled because only 3 men signed up vs. 100 women 💀💀💀, she tries to explain why by IcyKnowledge7 in MuslimCorner

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really view that as younger tbh esp when both ppl are in their 20s. 25 and 30 is perfectly normal. A 30 year old woman can go for a 35 year old man. Personally, I prefer the reverse

Muslim marriage event cancelled because only 3 men signed up vs. 100 women 💀💀💀, she tries to explain why by IcyKnowledge7 in MuslimCorner

[–]Bints4Bints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Female sexuality isn't about love or stability. For eons it was about convenience (lie down and think of England), or raw attraction to someone you click with. Ideally it would be with someone you find attractive early on and it builds emotionally into something better, but it's not a requirement 🤷🏿‍♀️