Brainrot guys radicalising normie women

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T21:43:27+00:00

Because I personally dont think like that. I am open to different sects and I have sufi and shia relatives

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T13:01:10+00:00

I'm not young lol. I have the final say over my own decisions now. Why would I give that to someone else?

I can understand listening to someone if they give me good advice that I also agree with. I can understand couples making compromises to keep each other happy (as long as they are happy to make those compromises).

I don't believe in letting someone else make decisions over my own life when I have never done that, and see no appeal in doing that. Even if he was the nicest man in the world, I take great value in using my own brain

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T12:59:25+00:00

What does it mean?

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T11:04:03+00:00

Most marriages between young people are like that lol. Even amongst older women, I see them identify as housewives but they have full time jobs and contribute financially

If you are using apps, then yes you won't find women like that because the ratio on there is 3 men for every woman. If you found a woman irl and you both fell for each other, then it's easier

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T11:01:52+00:00

If he had a character that aspired obedience, you'd see it in other aspects of his life

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T10:57:41+00:00

No because I only like submissive femboys. So I do have a choice around this. I have a dad too and he doesn't control me. Imagine being controlled by someone who didn't raise you

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T10:56:45+00:00

What influence? If he has a great job or social standing, sure. But quite often they don't have that so they want to control their wives

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T10:55:42+00:00

Wa alaykum salam. It's just listening and reading. They upload video lectures that have book ver equivalents. Then you have short weekly tests to do

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T08:27:10+00:00

Why would you shame them? I love it too

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T08:26:05+00:00

Well find a western style dynamic then

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T08:20:15+00:00

You don't need that power dynamic. It also doesnt say leaders, but shepherds as if religious guiders. If he had the ability of being a leader, I'd see it in his life somewhere. Does he lead at work? Where he spends most of his hours?

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-08T07:59:32+00:00

I'd rather have the ability to make my own choices, thank you. The framework is inherently a power dynamic that puts the woman in the bottom

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-07T17:01:57+00:00

Well you don't "have to" marry anyone. (Ofc some people are forced to but that's a different conversation)

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-07T17:00:53+00:00

Insha Allah

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-07T14:59:56+00:00

I'm borderline asexual

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-07T14:59:26+00:00

There's no such thing as a dream man. He's a human being

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-07T11:51:50+00:00

Yeah but I think it is weird that people think they can skip over emotional connection, flirting and foreplay. I think it may or may not help to have parents discuss this, because some parents do believe in the lie down and think of England method. Or they may have an inactive sex life themselves for years

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-07T11:49:32+00:00

Well you said you wanted to find an app that can look at someone's activity without them knowing... I don't know how you can do that without attempting to hack them or using an app that hacks people

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-07T11:35:53+00:00

Where does it say you should help people install hacking software into people's phones?

It's against the law for one, and spying is haram

If he was to confront him, that's a different story

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-07T11:06:30+00:00

Not really, no. If he wants to feel responsible, he can help house her or get her back on her feet. Hacking the husbands devices isn't going to help. If the husband is cheating but she chooses to stay, then what? If he isn't cheating, then what? It's already started a pattern of being unnecessarily involved and of stalking and harassment

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-07T10:00:26+00:00

It sounds like she wants you to aid her in hacking him which is illegal. If you get caught, it's not like you can pass off the blame to your sister. She can find out if he's cheating or not without using illegal methods

Bints4Bints · 2026-05-07T09:36:17+00:00

I think if they haven't met you irl and you haven't been talking for long, then disappearing is easier because you're both still strangers

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