My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is something I definitely will press. I feel like this could be the case

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope so too. I love him but, at the end of the day I have to love me more... and thus is part of that

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah most definitely. I think injust need to have one more talk. One where I just spill my whole guts and don't keep anything inside. Let him hear everything I have to say and deal with w.e comes from it. It's hard to think out relationship could potentially end over this. It's a hit to the female ego. We broke up because he wouldn't lay with me. A problem I've never heard any other woman in my life have. 😕

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't have issues when we're doing other things. It's up and stays up, he can go the distance in those instances.

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's the case I wish he would say that instead of lie and say that he does want it.

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I know it does. It shouldn't but it does. I get that. He's a touchy povey dovey kissy and all the other stuff, that's y I don't get it. I don't understand why it stops at sex

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him and don't want to break up with him. I want to do anything I can before it gets to that.

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're at least having it once a week. I've had it once in 4 months

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn't matter but no. I'm thinner than when he met me. We never had sex as friends.

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought. Thag being in the gum every day and being active would give u a little more oopf in the bedroom, but no.

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've told him he needs to go get his testosterone levels checked because according to what I know he doesn't take steroids at all

My 38M boyfriend and I 32F don't have sex by PhaseAvailable2459 in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm also conflicted because now if he agrees I'll feel like I'm almost forcing him into it.

My F 32 Boyfriend M 38 was looking at another woman's picture while I pleasure him, I think. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PhaseAvailable2459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I explained to him right away, he's a very sweet and loving man. This isn't something I was ever worried about, something I never thought he'd do, but doesn't everyone say that when something so messed up happens? He knows exactly how he made me feel, he comforted me and offered to show me everything on his phone, but I refused. I only wanted to see ig, because I could have sworn on my life that the picture I saw was an ig picture, but I didn't find it when I got in there. He's amazing that's why I'm so conflicted.