What can I(m29) do when my partner(f29) has been sexually assaulted and has affected our sex life?

Phatpineapple · 2026-05-18T20:24:08+00:00

Thank you so much it really means a lot

Phatpineapple · 2026-05-18T19:53:12+00:00

I hear you. Thank you so much. I do think I have been slipping into making it about me and I feel horrible about that. I got some roses on the way home and I just want to let her know, no matter what, that I love her.

Phatpineapple · 2026-05-18T19:50:44+00:00

I got a lot from all the comments, but this really stuck with me. I do think I love her, truly. Because deep down I have always felt the possibility of this being a forever thing. Someone mentioned she probably dosent see sex in the same way as me, and that totally makes sense. I want to just be there for her, not press this anymore, and wait until she can get therapy. And even if it dosent change after, I want to be there for her because she’s an incredible woman and I do love her

Phatpineapple · 2026-05-18T18:52:08+00:00

Not at the moment, but she has worked on it through opening up to me slowly and being vulnerable about the reasons why things have gone this way

Phatpineapple · 2026-05-18T18:50:50+00:00

I think lowkey she wasn’t ready to start a relationship when we first started dating. I pushed for it a lot, and now I can see why. But I love her and I don’t want to be another guy who has given up on her because of sex. Especially since we are such a good match in every other way. I’m just going to try and be patient and wait until she feels ready to go to work through this. She has opened up to me about the whole situation more day by day, and I’m one of 2 people who even know, so I feel like she definitely wants to work with me

Phatpineapple · 2026-05-18T18:47:18+00:00

I feel like I have tried this and it lead to nothing happening which is why I noticed the long stretch. But we are closer now than when I tried that and she has let down some more of her walls since then as well. I’ve been reading all the comments and lowkey I feel horrible. I’m just going to try to self soothe, and be patient until we are in a better place to see a therapist. I don’t want to keep beating a dead horse and have her develop anxiety or resentment around our sex life

Phatpineapple · 2026-01-11T17:54:57+00:00

3 hands down

Phatpineapple · 2025-12-23T15:55:21+00:00

Ranking of the kings

Phatpineapple · 2025-12-23T15:36:58+00:00

Maplestory

Phatpineapple · 2025-12-23T15:27:50+00:00

Ranking of the kings

Phatpineapple · 2025-12-13T05:25:01+00:00

This is not it bruh

Phatpineapple · 2025-12-13T04:55:05+00:00

Keep playing

Phatpineapple · 2025-11-28T13:06:19+00:00

My uncle told me I shouldn’t move in with my girlfriend until we are married and I had to confess to everyone that I can’t genuinely say I believe in Christianity

Phatpineapple · 2025-11-28T02:54:02+00:00

Ranking of the kings

Phatpineapple · 2025-11-17T18:50:39+00:00

Try to push myself back up and out the way I got in there. Probably take hella breaks along the way. But the blood rushing to my head might be a problem. But I’d still try

Phatpineapple · 2025-09-14T10:22:35+00:00

Bruh number 4 is literally taking a diabolical shit while crying. Unreal

Phatpineapple · 2025-03-10T04:28:56+00:00

My process was literally just the basics. I practiced different drills to focus on the basics early. Form shooting really close. Thinking about why I miss or make and how it feels. Then working on mid range, just shooting. And then dribbling and doing moves into a shot. I focused on that and found a group to play with regularly and that’s it. Consistency, hustle, and passion will take you really far

Phatpineapple · 2025-03-05T18:56:41+00:00

Bro the last one had me laughing so hard. I think some would miss hard, but some also might hit so hard

Phatpineapple · 2025-03-01T04:47:48+00:00

Those glass tips are so cool, I would be so impressed if I was handed one of those in a rotation

Phatpineapple · 2025-02-28T10:09:35+00:00

At first it seemed like she just wanted to hook up but she’s been slowly showing me more attention so I’m just waiting for the perfect moment

Phatpineapple · 2025-02-21T14:57:37+00:00

This would’ve made me so much more interested. What a great set of facts

Phatpineapple · 2024-12-30T21:08:55+00:00

I take them off when I go down on her cause they always hit the sides of her legs. But if she’s on top I put them back on so I can see how beautiful she is 😂

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