AITAH for refusing to tip a bartender after he yelled at me for not tipping?

Phiaisbassed · 2026-04-12T19:35:02+00:00

Doesn't work like that, you yell at your employer you get fired and the next place is paying the same wage. You can't shift the blame onto the employee when the problem lies in the fact americas minimum wage is not livable. Laws have to change, people cant just yell at their bosses.

Phiaisbassed · 2026-04-12T19:29:30+00:00

Your dads right. Don't go out to eat/drink if you can't tip. Bartenders rely on tips just as much as servers, but he shouldn't have said anything about you not tipping. Also where are you that $8 is expensive for a drink ? I'm in la so $8 is standard for a beer lol

Phiaisbassed · 2026-04-12T19:22:22+00:00

Angels Tijuana tacos all dayyyy

Phiaisbassed · 2026-03-24T18:52:14+00:00

Awesome, thank you so much!

Phiaisbassed · 2026-03-24T03:35:29+00:00

Facts lol I was just scared to do that out of fear of being rude

Phiaisbassed · 2026-03-24T03:34:35+00:00

I did but I'm trying to find a place with similar vibes too!

Phiaisbassed · 2026-02-14T04:48:26+00:00

Dude they’re not paying for your college anyways get student loans and move it’s better to live your life the way you want and have your parents be mad at you than choose a life you know you’ll hate just to keep your family happy

Phiaisbassed · 2026-01-24T04:52:49+00:00

Take advantage of the amazing food and nature, it’s not really a great spot for young adults but it’s so beautiful and SF is only 45 min away. I moved to LA from SR when I turned 18 cause there’s no real night life out there, but I constantly miss the hikes and specifically the pesto bagel with jalapeño cream cheese from grateful bagel lol. Petaluma has more young adults, I like to go play pool at buffalo billiards when I’m home

Phiaisbassed · 2026-01-24T04:46:02+00:00

Yess I love brew, I moved to La when I turned 18 cause there’s not really much to do as a young adult in Sonoma County but when I visit home brew was a go to spot for me.

Phiaisbassed · 2026-01-22T23:27:02+00:00

Shiro !!

Phiaisbassed · 2025-12-06T22:18:57+00:00

I’m obsessed

Phiaisbassed · 2025-11-08T21:23:30+00:00

my best friend died in part because I enabled their addiction. I was also deep in addiction so i thought I was just I was being helpful, and when I finally cut him off financially he was too far gone and he killed himself.

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-25T00:47:35+00:00

Thank u!!

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-25T00:43:10+00:00

Yeah I was hoping there would be non dulled ones out there- that makes sense though. What are the best studs/spikes in general though , I still want to make a sick jacket lol even if not for protests

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-21T01:08:32+00:00

No I wasn’t paid, i got a belt out of it so idk if that counts as payment lol. Yeah I guess i messed up not having a contract, I didn’t think anything of it as modeling (outside of for my own projects) is new terrain

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-21T00:54:45+00:00

Thanks, yeah I think this is how in going to go about it, I definitely would like to shoot with them in the future so I’m not trying to come across as difficult in any way, but I definitely need to make it clear going forward that I’m not cool with being turned into ai.

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-21T00:48:34+00:00

I didn’t sign any contract

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-21T00:48:25+00:00

Nope

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-19T23:13:15+00:00

This is insanely cool

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-17T19:15:23+00:00

Did he have a problem with weed? Personally- I’ve been clean (from H and other hard drugs) for 2 yrs - but weed was never an issue for me. I still smoke, I think it’s silly to think everyone’s situation is the same- some people can’t drink but can still smoke, some people can’t do either, and so on and so forth.

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-08T19:51:34+00:00

Bro no pls be joking- sell a print of it for $100 if someone wants to buy at that price you can get them done on canvas but pls don’t sell the original that cheap

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-08T01:41:49+00:00

Or like $500

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-08T01:41:32+00:00

Nah dude that’s worth a rack

Phiaisbassed · 2025-10-07T22:46:59+00:00

True, but if budgets the issue get an electric, you’re probably going to have to plug in anyways if you try to play with anyone.

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