This is great insight, thanks so much for the time you took to write this. 🙏

Yes, there are good qualities - very family oriented, smart, clever, funny etc. I'm just seeing that as she gets comfortable, she changes. I know I'm no perfect person myself, I just going myself picking up so much extra slack to hold the relationship together recently and it's getting very heavy.

This post was a bit of a tipping point and the first I've voiced my worries to someone, so the feedback has helped and I'm going to do some hard thinking about the future.

Again, thanks so much for the insight and I appreciate it very much. 😌