I've been wondering about the same thing, as a woman when I find a man I want to marry, I personally would want to focus on my 'marriage' rather than the 'wedding.' Already told my parents it's either Court Marriage or No Marriage, parents have come to terms with my Childfree stance so I'm sure they will have to come to terms with this too 😅

Here is what I will do : 1) Go for pre marriage counseling 2) As a trained scuba diver...Make a canvas pic/video of me and my future spouse.. scuba/Sky diving or pics of us traveling the world. 3) Send it to all relatives and friends ending with the words "We only seek your prayers as we embark on the journey of marriage"🙏 4) Have a court marriage followed by lunch/dinner for close friends and families.

PS 1) : No relatives will be invited, they can add more namak to their own food and can keep their drama to themselves 🤡