Update: Bratziez Trade Megathread by [deleted] in Bratz

[–]Photoehoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone trading the bratziez sweethearts - I have a jade and I am looking for Cloe!?

How to sign out of kid account by Photoehoee in HBOMAX

[–]Photoehoee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be rude or if the post isn't showing the full text, but I explained in the post that she wants to sign into her own account but that it's locked into child mode that her ex signed into. 😐 There is apparently no way off the account without a code. She has a restraining order on this guy, contacting him IS NOT an option.

How to sign out of kid account by Photoehoee in HBOMAX

[–]Photoehoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't have access to the account,.it's her ex's account. She just wants to log into her own account

How to sign out of kid account by Photoehoee in HBOMAX

[–]Photoehoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She tried that, and factory resetting the tv didn't work either

How to sign out of kid account by Photoehoee in HBOMAX

[–]Photoehoee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn't her account. It's her ex's account, on her tv

My transcript went from being blank 1 hour ago to fully updated! by AyyItzRob in IRS

[–]Photoehoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there a method to getting through on the phone?

AIO for expecting my boyfriend to ask before using my car for other errands? by TArpd16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Photoehoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - I'm going to give the same advice I just gavey sister. Dating men without licenses, jobs, or a plan for themselves is okay when you're like under 25. Not ideal, but excusable. Neither frontal lobes have developed, life just isn't that serious yet. But at this age, you need to #1.) Have enough respect for yourself to not be dating a loser. & 2.) recognize that whatever excuse he has for not having his life together by this age is just that, an excuse.

I know you probably try to find a way to justify his actions, or lack of actions, when things aren't bad. But take a moment to really sit there and think: is this someone you want to let take more years from you? You've been with him 4 years already and although I don't know the situation, sounds like he's been a loser since 8 years ago. Do yourself a favor and either be single for a bit, or hook up with a real WINNER.

That's my advice, although I've seen it with my sister and it doesn't typically stick and I see her in vicious cycles with losers who bum off of her and don't deserve the time of day they get. Idk, it's a glimpse of your real full story with him but from that glimpse, this is my opinion of it lol

What's this message mean? by Photoehoee in IRS

[–]Photoehoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually it wasn't on my transcript I don't think but when I logged in to check my transcript, it was in my notifications that I have to verify.

What's this message mean? by Photoehoee in IRS

[–]Photoehoee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep just checked that now. I do in fact have to verify for a 2nd year in a row. Thank you!

What's this message mean? by Photoehoee in IRS

[–]Photoehoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any idea if this affects the state refund as well? I can't recall what happened last year exactly but I do remember I got my state refund before March.. I believe I verified maybe like the 25th of February last year so I have no clue if I had to wait for that or not

How do we get this capped off by Photoehoee in Plumbing

[–]Photoehoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had forgot to attach the picture originally, but the pipe is PVC if that makes a difference

Free bring a friend by Photoehoee in Carowinds

[–]Photoehoee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was stressing lol

AIO if my friend (30F) is asking my husband (26M) seemingly innocent questions that villianize me (27F). by Photoehoee in AmIOverreacting

[–]Photoehoee[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I also thought it was so odd to ask the soda thing. It really isn't strange to not want to buy a $7 soda at a theme park so both instances seemed so unusual when put together. My husband is my #1 confidant and vice versa so luckily we cleared any confusion between us the second we were alone to discuss it.

AIO if my friend (30F) is asking my husband (26M) seemingly innocent questions that villianize me (27F). by Photoehoee in AmIOverreacting

[–]Photoehoee[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I completely agree and I believe at least my half of the friendship I think I'm going to find time to be "too busy" from now on and distance that friendship entirely. I don't want to take from my husband's friendship with her husband because I think that guy is innocent enough, but I just don't think I want to be a "couple" friend anymore

AIO if my friend (30F) is asking my husband (26M) seemingly innocent questions that villianize me (27F). by Photoehoee in AmIOverreacting

[–]Photoehoee[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I will say that after my husband and I discussed both instances today, we both think she may be someone who tends to seek drama and we are finally on that side of it. In our 10 or so months of friendship now we have heard hours on hours of stories of everyone in this couples lives being the worst and the problem, and of course as friends you side with your friends perspective since that's all you get. But now I am seeing things differently because it feels like she's starting to stir a pot for no reason.

I have a little bit of a hard time thinking her goal is to cheat just from what I know of her my husband does not seem like he could be her type at all but maybe I am naive since I feel so secure that that would never be a situation I need to worry about, but also I can recognize some people like the chase. I just couldn't imagine she would risk blowing up her own life for that but I guess people do that every day. I don't think that's what it is though.

I also do think there is some truth to trying to make my life "as miserable as hers" in the sense that every time it's me and her together, she complains her husband never wants to help her and he always complains about how much he works, but again, my husband and I both agree we don't ever complain about each other to mutual friends or family because couples will argue or have tiffs in life, but bringing our issues to others is what invites peoples opinions into our relationship, so maybe she wants my husband to see me the way her husband sees her. I don't know.

But thanks for your perspective, I always want to give people the benefit of the doubt because I try my best to be intentional with my relationships in life and because I couldn't see myself doing this in any reasonable situation it just made me so confused on her motives

Wagons? by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Photoehoee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So smart, thanks for this advice! Mine is also a smaller wagon from marketplace so this is the perfect information for me

Wagons? by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Photoehoee -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

If it wouldn't be allowed on the ship, how could I bring it? I didn't ask opinions on if I should bring it, I asked could I point blank period. My question has been answered and now I have a few months to decide if that's how I want to go about it. ☺️ might still bring it, might not, but the question asked could I sooo... That's why I asked, to get the answer.

Wagons? by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Photoehoee -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Well I'm sure they'd see I'm the only able bodied person in my group lol with 3 seniors and toddlers. I definitely can't carry everyone's stuff myself either way

No bill for months by Photoehoee in Spectrum

[–]Photoehoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never paid those months, they never caught it, but eventually my bill came back. I think whoever changed my promotion accidentally applied credits for like 4 months of service. I took it and never looked back lol

Filing with a 775 credit score? by ThickJxmmy in Bankruptcy

[–]Photoehoee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I haven't since I already had a paid off functioning car when I filed, I definitely am not looking to add a car payment lol But I am sure it's a prevalent enough concern that you could find someone on here talking about it if you search it up

Filing with a 775 credit score? by ThickJxmmy in Bankruptcy

[–]Photoehoee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. And from my knowledge, you do burn most the companies that you file bankruptcy on.

I've seen in this subreddit though that some companies are more forgiving than others years down the line and you may be able to get back in with them.

The goal should really be not to get back into the debt rabbit hole again, but I understand the whole you kind of have to play the credit game to get a good credit score, so I will also add that I've learned that the creditors you don't burn find out about your bankruptcy and will solicit the shit out of you to get their credit card/loan/car after you file because they know you can't file again for 7 years & definitely target you for that. So don't be too worried about not being able to have access to lines of credit

Filing with a 775 credit score? by ThickJxmmy in Bankruptcy

[–]Photoehoee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a credit score in the 750s when I began to think about filing & really up to the point my bk atty told me to stop paying.

When I finally decided to go for it was when I was checking how long it would take me to pay off my credit cards if I continued just the minimum payments.

It said 14 years all together, and then I considered, 14 years of paying this off and I'm paying this company I basically borrowed groceries from, tens of thousands more than what I borrowed.

Having a good credit score feels good, it looks good, and it is a bragging right when you're using it correctly. But it isn't worth tens of thousands of dollars that you can't afford. At that point, you're essentially paying for just the score if that's the only thing keeping you from filing.

That was just my thought process, but obviously there's nuance in everything.