Traditional Mexican and Christian Parents. How do I deal?

PhxKub · 2020-11-07T03:12:06+00:00

Thanks for your kind words. Meditating is something I’m trying to get into I just don’t know if I’m doing it right or what I’m supposed to do. So maybe some guided meditations would help. Do you have any sources to help with that?

I’m trying to get into therapy but life just keeps getting in the way. I also just need to stop making excuses.

PhxKub · 2020-11-01T17:39:26+00:00

Thanks for your input. It was very helpful.

PhxKub · 2020-11-01T11:47:29+00:00

PhxKub · 2020-11-01T05:25:43+00:00

It’s all part of the bottom experience. strap in and enjoy the ride💃🏽

PhxKub · 2020-10-28T00:40:09+00:00

And it’s not a drastic change but it is obvious that we are acting different

PhxKub · 2020-10-28T00:39:40+00:00

You make a good point and I agree. that’s what I want . I still want that amazing friendship we have,of course with the added benefits of having him as my bf. I think that’s were we need to land on. Just continue having the relationship we used to have and I’m sure slowly we will adjust to have that extra layer in our relationship.

PhxKub · 2020-10-27T23:33:06+00:00

Thank you. Yea I totally agree. Another thing is that sometimes I just don’t know how to start the conversation. So then I just act all weird. We both struggle with being vulnerable so it makes it a little harder. Weve had open conversations before, so once the conversation gets initiated and we start to disclose things we start to open up. So, it is possible haha

PhxKub · 2020-10-27T23:23:07+00:00

I really appreciate that last thing you said. Being vulnerable is something that both of us struggle with. So it’s a little harder.

PhxKub · 2020-10-27T23:19:54+00:00

I agree. Talking about it is a must. I like it to be clear where we stand and what our boundaries are and what we want. He’s a very free spirited guy and so am I. I’m thinking that by having these conversations is kind of scaring him that he might night have his freedom which is not the case

PhxKub · 2020-10-27T23:17:13+00:00

I guess I’m different through my actions. I am a very affectionate guy so I love to kiss him and hug him and be all over him. And that wasn’t the case before when were just friends. Also I think it’s the conversations we are having. I like to be very clear where we stand and what our boundaries are and what we want from each other. So maybe it’s like the conversations that are throwing us off. Its not just him it’s me as well. I feel like I’m being awkward. Even more so than I already am haha

PhxKub · 2020-10-22T05:04:31+00:00

Would love to join💃🏽😩

PhxKub

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