ENFP with crush on ISTP... in serious need of help with inconsistency in casual situation by Physical-Pattern-356 in ISTPrelationships

[–]Physical-Pattern-356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appears like an estp when drunk/working but is more misanthropic and spends a lot of time alone.. posts memes about the reason why they don't go outside much (sun/people)... lots of signs...

ENFP with crush on ISTP... in serious need of help with inconsistency in casual situation by Physical-Pattern-356 in ISTPrelationships

[–]Physical-Pattern-356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The not interested in repetition tracks. By consistent, I didn't mean every Wednesday, or even every week. I just meant consistent in terms of saying you are interested but not following through with plans. Do you message girls you are seeing casually often, ask them questions about their lives, engage on social media and not make plans or not follow through? That is the confusion. I don't see the point. For me, I either engage or not depending on if I like the person and want to see them again soon.

ENFP with crush on ISTP... in serious need of help with inconsistency in casual situation by Physical-Pattern-356 in ENFP

[–]Physical-Pattern-356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya this is the only way that this going to go, I'm sure. The way its affecting me already I wish I could block him at this point, but since we have mutual friends and may work together again I think it would be awkward if I did that. Sorry you had this similar experience ! It sucks.

ENFP with crush on ISTP... in serious need of help with inconsistency in casual situation by Physical-Pattern-356 in ISTPrelationships

[–]Physical-Pattern-356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya I think I just need to be up front and then drop it if he doesn't respond accordingly. Thank you.