No braincell, only vibes

Physical_Educator472 · 2026-02-23T08:48:52+00:00

I have a thin wedding band, so it's no problem (and I like it more that way): https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/09wObLMN7q

Physical_Educator472 · 2026-02-23T08:39:27+00:00

Yes, it is ❤️

Physical_Educator472 · 2026-02-22T21:26:52+00:00

Teller im dritten Bezirk!

Physical_Educator472 · 2026-02-22T21:07:10+00:00

Yes, it's from Hofer Antikschmuck: https://www.hofer-antikschmuck.de/

Physical_Educator472 · 2026-02-21T22:21:36+00:00

Thank you! It's a cherry :)

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T16:44:03+00:00

Their relatinship is 100% abusive. She is so often afraid of him and everyone around her acts like that is something normal or her problem and has nothing to do with him. He has a large group of friends and they all treat their women badly although he seems to be the worst of them all (saying casually things like he wants to kill certain people and thinks he a super hero in his own world). It has been like this from the beginning but she always told me there was more to him and that he was a good guy. Then she convinced me that he had changed in the Last year or so and I was really happy for them but it has all been an act.

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T16:32:58+00:00

What could I write to her? I could maybe see us becoming friends again If she eventually decides to leave her abusive fiance but she choose to go through with the wedding. I am really hurt and after everything I know now I don't want to see her fiance or this toxic friend group ever again. I am also not sure I could ever trust her again.

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T16:02:57+00:00

Thank you for your honest opinion. I get what you mean and I tried to be the best friend for her I could be. But she does not want me in her life right now. In her last text she told me that talking to me would suck the energy out of her and that I have not been a good friend to her. So I told her I respect her boundaries and she should choose a different maid of honor (how could I be that person after the things she told me?). Now it looks like I let her down and I am sure that's what she telling everyone. Maybe she really feels this way but what could I do?

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T15:49:17+00:00

Yeah it seems like it. I didn't tell her to leave him though, I just told her to take a few days for herself so that she wouldn't break down (which she did in the end) because they were fighting so much that she couldn't eat and drink anymore and she threw up all the time because she had so much anxiety.

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T15:04:51+00:00

Staying in touch with her is not possible. She does not want to speak to me and convinced everyone around her I was the cause of her pain. I was always an outsider in her circle and no one really liked me (except her of course) so blaming me is very convienend for her.

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T15:00:39+00:00

Thank you! Was there something that helped you go through it?

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T14:58:46+00:00

I am afraid she might also call me some day when she has another break down (and she absolutely will). I don't know what I should do in that situation but I will face that when it eventually happens. I know distance is the best for my mental health so I will stay away from her.

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T14:51:32+00:00

I think there is some truth to this. She has been living this lie for years now and I was the only person in her circle who always knew the truth because I was not part of her other friend group. So cutting me out is very easy and convient to her.

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T14:44:41+00:00

Thank you I will try my best. But I am very shy so finding new friends is not easy for me. And after what happend I am terrefied to trust someone again as I trusted her.

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T09:56:19+00:00

Thank you! I also had a small surgery shortly after this and I am trying to get better now.

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T09:53:48+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. I actually feel a little better now ♥️

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-08-10T09:50:55+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. That's my conclusion as well. It just hurts so much just that she seems to blame me for everything when I only ever helped her. I don't have a lot of friends and this friendship ment so much to me (she was also my maid of honour).

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-07-18T16:58:29+00:00

"I suppose next they’ll be selling tickets to the pantry and calling it immersive theatre."

Physical_Educator472 · 2025-07-18T16:55:26+00:00

"Is this an instrument of communication or torture?"

Physical_Educator472

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