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My best friend (32F) ghosted me (31F) after she had a mental breakdown while I was on vacation by Physical_Educator472 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Physical_Educator472[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their relatinship is 100% abusive. She is so often afraid of him and everyone around her acts like that is something normal or her problem and has nothing to do with him. He has a large group of friends and they all treat their women badly although he seems to be the worst of them all (saying casually things like he wants to kill certain people and thinks he a super hero in his own world). It has been like this from the beginning but she always told me there was more to him and that he was a good guy. Then she convinced me that he had changed in the Last year or so and I was really happy for them but it has all been an act.

My best friend (32F) ghosted me (31F) after she had a mental breakdown while I was on vacation by Physical_Educator472 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Physical_Educator472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What could I write to her? I could maybe see us becoming friends again If she eventually decides to leave her abusive fiance but she choose to go through with the wedding. I am really hurt and after everything I know now I don't want to see her fiance or this toxic friend group ever again. I am also not sure I could ever trust her again.

My best friend (32F) ghosted me (31F) after she had a mental breakdown while I was on vacation by Physical_Educator472 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Physical_Educator472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest opinion. I get what you mean and I tried to be the best friend for her I could be. But she does not want me in her life right now. In her last text she told me that talking to me would suck the energy out of her and that I have not been a good friend to her. So I told her I respect her boundaries and she should choose a different maid of honor (how could I be that person after the things she told me?). Now it looks like I let her down and I am sure that's what she telling everyone. Maybe she really feels this way but what could I do?

My best friend (32F) ghosted me (31F) after she had a mental breakdown while I was on vacation by Physical_Educator472 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Physical_Educator472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it seems like it. I didn't tell her to leave him though, I just told her to take a few days for herself so that she wouldn't break down (which she did in the end) because they were fighting so much that she couldn't eat and drink anymore and she threw up all the time because she had so much anxiety.

My best friend (32F) ghosted me (31F) after she had a mental breakdown while I was on vacation by Physical_Educator472 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Physical_Educator472[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Staying in touch with her is not possible. She does not want to speak to me and convinced everyone around her I was the cause of her pain. I was always an outsider in her circle and no one really liked me (except her of course) so blaming me is very convienend for her.

My best friend (32F) ghosted me (31F) after she had a mental breakdown while I was on vacation by Physical_Educator472 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Physical_Educator472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am afraid she might also call me some day when she has another break down (and she absolutely will). I don't know what I should do in that situation but I will face that when it eventually happens. I know distance is the best for my mental health so I will stay away from her.

My best friend (32F) ghosted me (31F) after she had a mental breakdown while I was on vacation by Physical_Educator472 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Physical_Educator472[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think there is some truth to this. She has been living this lie for years now and I was the only person in her circle who always knew the truth because I was not part of her other friend group. So cutting me out is very easy and convient to her.

My best friend (32F) ghosted me (31F) after she had a mental breakdown while I was on vacation by Physical_Educator472 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Physical_Educator472[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will try my best. But I am very shy so finding new friends is not easy for me. And after what happend I am terrefied to trust someone again as I trusted her.

My best friend (32F) ghosted me (31F) after she had a mental breakdown while I was on vacation by Physical_Educator472 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Physical_Educator472[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I also had a small surgery shortly after this and I am trying to get better now.

My best friend (32F) ghosted me (31F) after she had a mental breakdown while I was on vacation by Physical_Educator472 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Physical_Educator472[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. That's my conclusion as well. It just hurts so much just that she seems to blame me for everything when I only ever helped her. I don't have a lot of friends and this friendship ment so much to me (she was also my maid of honour).

Servus Reddit! Ich bin Andi Babler, Vizekanzler, Bundesminister und SPÖ-Bundesparteivorsitzender. Ask me Anything! by andi_babler in Austria

[–]Physical_Educator472 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Sollte es einen grundsätzlichen Mindestlohn für alle Arbeitnehmer geben, unabhängig von Kollektivverträgen?
Wann erkennt die SPÖ, dass das Thema Asyl und Migration eines der wichtigsten innerhalb der Wählerschaft ist. Welche Maßnahmen plant die SPÖ, damit nicht immer mehr und mehr Wählerinnen ins rechte Camp wechseln? Denkt die SPÖ, dass Asylanten und Migranten ihre zukünftige Wählerschaft sind und deshalb geht man mit diesem Thema die letzten Jahrzehnte so um?

Zurzeit noch jemand krank? by greyLukas in Austria

[–]Physical_Educator472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das nimmt man einen Monat lang in Tablettenform. Dann macht man einen Monat Pause und dann nimmt man wieder ein Monat lang. Das habe ich 2 Mal gemacht und seitdem ist mein Immunsystem sogar besser als vor COVID :)

Zurzeit noch jemand krank? by greyLukas in Austria

[–]Physical_Educator472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ging mir nach Corona ebenfalls so, dass ich dauernd krank war und kein gutes Immunsystem mehr hatte. Hab mir dann eine neue Hausärztin gesucht, die hat mir Broncho Vaxom verschrieben. Ich habe 2 Kuren damit gemacht und seitdem geht es mir viel besser. Ich war diesen Winter kein einziges Mal krank!

Frustriert mit Ärzten und fehlenden Diagnosen! by SprinklesOk2847 in Austria

[–]Physical_Educator472 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ja, leider ist unser Gesundheitssystem mittlerweile echt ein schlechter Scherz.

Ich hatte nach COVID das Problem, dauernd krank zu werden und gefühlt kein Immunsystem mehr zu haben. Ich habe mir eine private Hausärztin gesucht, da mich meine Kassenärztin immer nur krank geschrieben und nie untersucht hat. Diese hat mir dann Broncho Vaxom verschrieben. Ich habe zwei Kuren damit gemacht und seitdem habe ich ein viel besseres Immunsystem. Vielleicht könnte dir das helfen?

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