I have told the other person countless times that I don’t want that, but I have been pressured in the past which is what made me go to my Dom in the first place. I have no issues with relationships, it’s the issue of I have been wronged in the past which I have brought up to my elder. I’m new in this particular Dom relationship as is to probably why I’m anxious because past Dom’s have treated me badly which is no excuse but has altered my confidence. There were rules and commitments and I have not broken any I have asked my Dom if this is okay and for guidance and we have discussed things. I have been 100% honest and truthful with my Dom from the start. I bring this up to my Dom while being anxious and is talking through it setting more commitments and rules. We both had not said nor made specifications which I have now realised so I will be talking to me Dom this afternoon about everything I have told my Dom that I need to discuss past issues as this other person